If you were the husband/wife....

[xavisimao]

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akong gi confront akong partner dayn after I saw it.Gi labay gud nakong laptop sa atubangan...I just also wanted to know her side Kay mas mahimutang ko makabaw each sides of their stories...

musta man ang laptop miga? ok ra?

[dangelndisguise]

hahaha...joke? mao na uso nga reason ron i think......mao sad na rason sa girl ug sa ako hubby...joke ra daw ang i miss you nila.....and that ang mga pics nila..picture2x lang kay dghan man sila kuyog....but d bah, taga kuyog naa jud sila moment? hahahaha...and the reason why dili sila mosulti sa ako kung mgkuyog sila kay basin daw lainon nako sabot and mhurt ko...? wow, o d ba concern sila nako? hahaha...funny...

hala noh

ingon ana nalang kasayun nila? joke2x lng.. unya joke gihapon na ang makaguba sila ug pamilya?

pgka

[myefan]

hahahaha/.....guba na jud........we don't sleep together na gani.....oh di bah, kataw anan ila joke? it started sa ila joke2x....we were so happy before kadtong ala pa sila ngjoke2x!hahahha

[twalalyn]

I have decided to stay and looked at things in a different perspective of our marriage & w/ a purpose.I've taken it as a challenge to be a better wife in all aspects & work on our relationship.I've stopped blaming,asking & pushing him away bcoz I don't see the point of fighting & it will just break us into pieces.Instead, I want to turn things into positive and make our bond stronger. I will leave everything up to God w/ HIS guidance.This is not easy but we are both willing to move forward & work at it.

Thank you guys for all the advices

[mrvs19]

D na maau ila gbuhat ts, mkadaot sa future. Mga minyo nmn unta na cla. Wa lng jd tngli gpahalagahan ang marriage nd family.

[twalalyn]

D na maau ila gbuhat ts, mkadaot sa future. Mga minyo nmn unta na cla. Wa lng jd tngli gpahalagahan ang marriage nd family.

Di gyud maayo,mrvs!Daghan nani sila rn...I'm giving him another chance to see if he'll really change,value us more & to earn the respect that i used to have for him.He has a lot to work on including me.

[spike412]

common kaayo ni na situation mahitabo sa married couple... naa gyud temptation. magsabot lang gyud og ayo if both couples want their marriage to work. lisod pero kinahanglan buhaton nato mag reconcile kay minyo naman. tanan ato pride ato tunlon bisan pa unsa nato ka maldita.

[twalalyn]

common kaayo ni na situation mahitabo sa married couple... naa gyud temptation. magsabot lang gyud og ayo if both couples want their marriage to work. lisod pero kinahanglan buhaton nato mag reconcile kay minyo naman. tanan ato pride ato tunlon bisan pa unsa nato ka maldita.

very true,spike!i really hope & pray na turning point ni sa akong husband nga di nah magbinuang kay kn mausab pa...wala nay chance mahatag...

[myefan]

agree..i realized that as well...i'm tired of having arguments with him coz mas mgkadaku amo away....and he is not the type of a person nga moapologize..almost 3 years na ko sig hinilak...dili tungod sa root sa amo away, but ang mga nahitabo tungod sa amo panag away.....we both hurt each other,,,,....and since family is very important to me, ako na ngive way.....i give him love even if dili ko niya tagdon...then i showed to him that despite of everything, there's still hope for us to be okay.....and i make sure that i won't let him see that i'm weak and sad....i make it to a point nga happy ko lantawn mgplay n baby and mg atiman niya though dili pa xa ready mopaubos ya pride....u know why? coz i love him and i know taw ra xa, masaup sad...maybe it's time to give chances...and forgive.

[yvonne6]

it takes 2 to tango. u cant just place the blame on one person and to think, dili nimo ma ask ang partner sa laing taw about sa sala sa iyang partner kay pareho ramo nga biktima. deal with the problem with your husband/wife. ug ako ang asawa, unya akong bana makig chat pas iyang ex ug ang bana sa ex mo ask nako why, i would say, i would i know. ug ako poy nakasakop, bukbokon nako akong partner, ang ubang taw dili nato ma control. sad but true