Originally Posted by
Snowfly
chase328
Life might be too harsh on us at times, but I believe every lessons life is giving.. is making us more stronger as a person so that we can tackle back again whatever upcoming storms that might be coming our way...
People who hungers and thirst for emotional and physical needs seek it from others to compliment whats lacking w/n the bounds of marriage,we have to examine the cause and effect,a person longing for love or a person deprived or incapacitated of his/her needs would sort to seek other arms for comfort, right?
What am trying to say is, nangyari na yan, we could no longer turn back the hands of time.He needs help right now and as a wife dapat kita ang maka intindi, karamay for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, so why not help each other? open your mind lang coz we are just human beings,we sometimes stumble and fall. Yet capable to rise up again.
I know its not that easy for you, but It would hurt you the more if you will keep on blaming each other and hayaan nalang na mawasak ang once a beautiful relationship you had.
You are both victims of circumstances because of distance and the line of his work.. . and I suggest both of you must consult a doctor about that incurable disease you mentioned, am positive that he will cooperate w/ you since sya baya ang naka sala nimo. How can we make things right if we keep on doing wrong?
Families are torn into pieces when the husband or the wife does not have enough time for each other or have some sort invisible walls built around themselves...If we truly love a person, giving up on each other is beyond our wildest imaginations.
Whatever you do, please ask God for guidance, he cares and will always will.