Why women are attracted to jerks

[morvan21]

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behind a jerk is a girl that broke his heart and made him into somebody that we call.. JERK

aye!!! PRESENT!!!

[Crimson_Viper]

what's a jerk anyway.?

[ohohoy]

ksagaran gyud TS..

[maddox_pitt]

..interesting

[dmelsie]

share lang ko gamay:

boss mikoy oi kahinumdom pa ka nako? ako to nag pm nimo sauna when u started posting here about
new styles of courting girls

daghan kog na learn sa mga references imo gihatag and nag research sad ko and testing ginagmay if effective ba gyud, and i can say effective gyud, pero malas lang gyud kay sa isa ka girl ra nako gi apply tanan tanan akoa nakat onan hahahaha,

sa iyang circle of friends siya ra nagpabilin nga strong relationship hehehehe most of her friends kay naka undergo og break up last 2010 hehehehe niya mo sulti man sad siya nako na gi ask siya nganu wala siya ma member sa ilang circle ngon ra pod siya ambot wa man me sekreto para molahutay amoa relationship
akoa bf kay boang boang, amaw og kolokoy man to hahaha

naa gane to one time na nagkakuyog me iyang mga friends tapos pag uli nako gi texan ko akoa gf
ingnan ko niya ganahan daw and doctora na kauban niya. nako kay naa daw ko sense and nindot ka istorya

thankful gyud ko na naka pm pm teka way back last year guro to kay na enhance gyud nako ang mga latent powers og potential hidden in the deep nako hahahahaha

kana me object sa mga gi post nimo, mao na ang mga typical na taw nga if ma busted murag gibundakan og tibook kalibutan hehehehe

[dmelsie]

ATTRACTION. ATTRACTION. ATTRACTION.

OK, so what are some of the things that make women FEEL that GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION?

More importantly, how can us guys do some of these things to make women feel attracted to US without having to be abusive jerks?

My answer is to learn about how the "Attractive Jerk" personality acts, but leave out the ABUSIVE aspects... and mix in a few other surprises to make an irresistible combination.

mik0y, are you a PUA ? Did your friend SMOOTH taught you the Mystery Method or the Venusian Arts ?

@FAQ
Wikipedia? Google? Info?

Ok , so you have to be THE BIGGEST JERK to get girls ? You treat them like nothing and you have to put yourself first then the woman you're dating ? You don't have to open the door for her because it is what it is , being the attractive jerk ?

@FAQ
Mao na gitawag og New School boss, kana imo gi huna huna kay OLD SCHOOL na kayo na

Here's an example:

Women are attracted to men who aren't easy to pin down, who are busy with their lives, and who they have to work to get and keep the attention of.

It's hard to get a Jerk's attention because he's so consumed with himself. He's busy being selfish, so it's just natural that a woman will find it hard to get his attention.

Oh Jesus . How could you create an attraction with the opposite *** if you're acting like an immature loser ? What kind of woman you're trying to get ?

@FAQ
Mao ni gitawag boss nga eversince sa pagkahimugso nato ning kalibutana nanginahanglan ta og ATTENTION.
Suma if naka observe ka og bata or basig minyo naka unya naa nakay anak
Mohilak imohang bata kay para ma pansin nimo and to inform you nahurot na iyang gatas niya if dili nimo matagad daun, mohilak og samot taman imo siyang doolon og tagaan laing gatas by that time mohilom og mag smile smile na siya while drinking his milk
Pareha ra sad na sa babae boss, give her to much attention and she will feel sick about you, murag imo gitook, sama sa bata if sigehan nimo bantay, ilisa sanina, e pamper sigi usahay samokan na
If kahibaw ka mo control and kahibaw ka when, how, and what, she will crave for you, and if she have what she wants, how she wants, when she wants it, shell be very happy for it

If you want to use this psychology to your advantage, you can do things like:

1) Talk about times you're busy before talking about times you're available.

Example: You're talking on the phone and making plans to get together. Most guys will say something like "How about tomorrow at 3?" The smart guy will say "Let's see, I'm busy tomorrow morning and the next day. And I'm going out of town this weekend... But I can do it tomorrow at 3."

See the difference? It may not sound like much, but when you start saying things like "Well, I'm busy at this time...and I'm busy at that time... etc." the person listening starts to unconsciously think "Uh oh, it sounds like they're busy...I wonder if they're going to have time for me..."

Bad idea to pull a FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT , if both are planning for a first date . Women wants to feel that they're the only girl in the world . So planning for a first date , don't you think it would be better to play with her rules and slowly take her from within . Think of yourself as a drug pusher , the first thing they do is give , give, and give until she's dependent on you !

That’s what you think boss, as what mikoy said, he means and teach na in vice versa if a man or a woman easily gets what he or she wants dali ra kapuyan and pul an. Naa man gitawag og Challenge.

Nakahinumdom pa gyud ko sa una nako diskarte met ako gf ron, nianha ko sa iya school sauna kay para ma met siya personally e share gyud nako ni, pagka kita namo outside sa school naa pa man siya class ato nigawas lang siya, after gyud pagpaila nako akoa name I just shake her hands and as if I hurriedly walk across the next street na murag naa ko giapas na something important. And after ato nangita na siyag way na maka talk me kay NAPUNGOT siya nako nganu nag ingadto ko,  at the same time nka spark ko sa iyang curiosity towards nako and after that everything follows na

And that was 7 years ago 

By the way naka himo ko ingato before ko nakahibaw sa mga references na gihatag ni Mikoy nako,

2) Leave her alone once in awhile when you're out together.

Example: You're out together at a store window shopping. Most guys will stick right along side of the girl that they're with the entire time. Instead, walk away from her into a different part of the store once in awhile and let her come find you.

Again, see the difference? At a subtle level, walking away from a woman communicates "I'm confident and independent. I do what I want with my life, and I don't need to stay right next to you every second to get your approval."

In the two above situations, a Jerk might do these things anyway, but it's always from a SELFISH, OFTEN ABUSIVE place inside.

It's funny to me, because Jerks attract women by accident. By acting like Jerks, they often naturally attract women, then say "Hey, cool. I can act like a Jerk and women love it."

Unfortunately, acting like a nice, sensitive guys usually won't lead to women falling all over you... so you don't have that same experience of figuring out what works early on by "accident."

Seriously , if anyone would take this advise are stupid . Why would you go away and pretending to ditch her ?

Dude , PEOPLE DON'T REMEMBER DAYS, THEY REMEMBER MOMENTS .. How could she remember great moments with you if you're not around with her ??

And the answer is simple boss, if biyaan ka sa girl that means mas important niya ang window shopping galore hehehe if mangita siya nimo that means something

So mahug nga naa nakay hint sa imong diskarti

And at the same time sad maka send kag something nga message sa girl

and Remember Hitting 2 birds with 1 stone is way way way much much better

kahinumdom sad d i ko if mag talk me sa akoa gi diskartian sauna sa college pa ko usually if manglaag or manuroy me moingon sila nga if karon pa ko nidiskarti nila dakog chance gyud na maka kuha kog YES na answer kay before daw wala gyud sila ka feel og spark hahahaha

Ni reply ko ani not as an expert or unsa or padako sa ego, but nibase lang ko what akoa na observe and na experience dili sad ko pick up artist but at some level naa ko idea on what is

ATTRACTION

[Crimson_Viper]

i want to be a jerk..














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[mrs.caulfield]

Sakto! Take it from me, been there done that. Pwede na magamit ang kang Mikoy if your planning for a short term relationship or duwa2x.
If your searching for a lifetime partner, you should be yourself. Even if you will use the Trojan Horse and capture her from within, just be yourself.

this is soooo true based on experience. i fell in love with a 'jerk'..

sure, it's fun and challenging. kept me on my toes every single time! but it feels like it is all just a game.

but when i think about my future.. about marriage, about building a family and who to spend the rest of my life with.. it is my LOVABLE LOSER ex-BF. the nice guy who gives me undivided attention and loyalty.

[r0mm3L]

the main point here is be a jerk at first, to capture girl's heart. and be the right person in a relationship.

not being a jerk all the way.

most nice guys/losers are the right person, but the sad reality is they are neglected because girls attracted to jerks

[kaytee]

@ TS

very well said. keep it up!










when i was reading your post, its like de javu for me since you talk and think like him. oh well..