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Originally Posted by
makie
There are some people with natural charm and they could really make somebody of the opposite gender fall so easily and seemingly effortlessly. However, the thing here is that you should never let your emotions rule over you and instead of concluding that you're "in love with him". Take note, the more you think that you're in love with him, the more you'll fall in love.
Think why are you attracted to him so much. You might say that it's something unexplainable but think and analyze more and deeply, you'll just realize the reasons why you're so drawn to him. Is it because of some of his actions? His character? His looks? Or maybe just simply because you share a lot in common? If you could pinpoint it, think if it's deep and reasonable enough to consider it "love". I tell you, normally, it isn't and it's just infatuation.
Take note, the more you think about him, the more you reinforce your emotions about him. Instead of daydreaming, focus your attention into something else more productive and don't let your emotions get the best of you but at the same time, enjoy your time and whatever level of friendship you have right now. Who knows, he'll be drawn to you too sooner or later. If you want some tips on this one, maybe I could share a few to help you but be sure to know your limits especially when it comes to relationships.