HELP: I'm slowly falling in love with a married guy

[Fern]

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Actually Bro, duna gani sya thread dri sa istorya.
Youre right, he is a guy of discipline. His principle is his faithfulness sa iyang wife despite nga gi bale wala na siya. Wife wala na communication sa iya then as in wala and he still keeps that hope.

Hes kinda wasting his time with that

lolz...tell him "while waiting...why not spend that idle time with me" ... he might change his mind..

break his discipline.... and let the pressure an passion surge out from him... those years nga na tigum

[kchisiru]

lolz...tell him "while waiting...why not spend that idle time with me" ... he might change his mind..

break his discipline.... and let the pressure an passion surge out from him... those years nga na tigum

I'll take that advice, hahahaha! Unsa kaha ang itsura nya? Hehehehe

Im sure after sa pagdeliver nako anang speech, iyang response would be "BEHAVE!"

Hahahahaha

[kchisiru]

I saw him a few minutes ago. He went to the HR office, snob kaayo. I wish I could kill this feeling as earlyas possible.

[Fern]

lolz....naa ka sa survey programming nuh?

heheheeh patabang sa imung daddy Ben.... sinaw biya kaayu na cyaug ulo... maka hypnotize ang ka sinaw

[kchisiru]

lolz....naa ka sa survey programming nuh?

heheheeh patabang sa imung daddy Ben.... sinaw biya kaayu na cyaug ulo... maka hypnotize ang ka sinaw

Sumbong tka, Hahahaha. Nanaway si Fern from IT department, hahahahah.

Nilabay na pud si Chingching, snob kaayo bisag grabe na akong kapay nya

[Fern]

Sumbong tka, Hahahaha. Nanaway si Fern from IT department, hahahahah.

Akong crush nia ra pod dri wats, even iyang wife...samok

bitaw.... when i talked with him... i cant stop looking at his shinny bald head... its like the lord of the rings..

GRRRRRR.... you will not find me sa IT office..... i will hide bwuahahha

[kchisiru]

bitaw.... when i talked with him... i cant stop looking at his shinny bald head... its like the lord of the rings..

GRRRRRR.... you will not find me sa IT office..... i will hide bwuahahha

Nanaway, be kind to animals Bro, hahahaha.

Bitaw, I feel hurt right now kay wala ko niya gipansin. I wanted to end this na. Help

[jimmy128]

toinks...

wala ko ni basa sa older posts pero i will give my 2 cents lang... il keep it simple

# 1 - married people = bawal, what can i say? sometimes it really pisses me of when women or men tend to fall for someone who is already married... why? coz maybe situations like these are near the top of the list of causes for broken marriages.. so what if ma broken ang marriage? well let me explain to you that a broken marriage can have terrible after effects.. did you know that most of the prisoners in jail come from broken families? did you know that most teen pregnancies are an indirect result of broken marriages and also poor relationships with parents? and with these teen pregnancies, more broken marriages occur, its what they call a vicious cycle, its been going on for so many years and is the reason why the society is like this today... dunno if you can see the bigger picture but yeah

# 2 - you wanting to end this is good, but its just you wanting, not you making it happen.. no matter how much advice people on this forum give you and you mismo dont take any action to ending it youself, then mark my words it will never end..

no advice, just want you to see whats going on, and im hoping you make the decision yourself not us make it for you

[okoy]

Well its really up to you.... You can't stop that feeling you have but you can change it somehow or divert it.... emotions can be very strong to conquer.... i've been there.... but you are in control of your life... don't be serious about it.... it will go away just don't think about it..... it might be blinding you somehow. the risk is very high.... you might end up single in the later years............... hehehehe

[kchisiru]

Thanks guys. I know it is not worth it, but this feeling is not easy to conquer.

Wala man gibuhat akong crush, yet the way he talk, walk and even merely his presence triggered my feelings for him. He's not doing any move at all, I know he's aware regarding akong feelings sa iya so he keeps evading me, that pisses me off and challenged.

I can see through his loneliness, his pain, his suffering. I wanted to reach out for him and get to know him better. Forgive me Ching, if I blew off my feelings this way.