Unsay Tanaw Ninyo Sa Mga Boys Nga Naa Nay Anak Pro Dii Minyo?

[prisci]

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basta wla niya gidaganan ang responsibility sa bata ug sa girl, ok ra. daghan naman gud ron single parents, sa paghimo ra maayo, dli mua2bang sa responsibility.

[entz_fire]

pogi ang dating macho pa gyod.

[archnacorda]

basta wla niya gidaganan ang responsibility sa bata ug sa girl, ok ra. daghan naman gud ron single parents, sa paghimo ra maayo, dli mua2bang sa responsibility.

Yup, as long as the guy does not run away from his responsibilities TO THE CHILD, being an unwed father is no big deal.

But I do wonder why some insist that he has a responsibility to the mother. If they made the mutual decision to have *** (meaning nobody forced her to spread her legs) and an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy was the result, and a mutual decision not to get wed or be together was made, then what "responsibility to the girl" are you referring to?

Nowadays, both parents are expected to work and share all responsibilities of bringing up a child, whether or not they are wed or living together. If the girl does not want to marry the guy, then why should she demand financial support for herself. Yes, the child's financial needs should be a major responsibility of the father assuming possession is with the mother, but that should not mean that the girl should also expect to have her personal needs be attended to by the guy.

There has been to much "guy-bashing" here and in other threads. Don't get me wrong, I too am a child of a single mother when our dad abandoned us for another woman. I loathe at parents who abandon their families. But I am also a 40-something happily married guy for 18 years with 4 kids who understands that not all unwed fathers are automatically at fault. Where is it written or cast in stone that the mother is always the better parent than the father.

Many single mothers has posted that they were wronged. I wouldn't want to deny them their version of how the relationship went south. But I would take their version with a grain of salt. I have witnessed many of my married friends separate or got into serious problems, and mind you, it is not always the guy's fault, although some of the girls has shouted to the whole world that they were the ones wronged. I guess human nature dictates that we take the side of the girl but reality dictates that this is no so, specially in the times we live in.

My principle of this "unwed or single mother/father" topic is this - if both mutually agreed to end or not to continue on with the relationship, then both should carry the financial responsibilities and should also take extra attention on their moral and psychological support to the child/children. If the decision was mutual and child-possession is with the mother, then the father should never waver on his financial support to the child/children as well as his other parental responsibilities. As for the mother, she should not demand financial support for herself, but should get herself a job so she can spend for her own needs.

Gone are the times of the single parent brooding and crying about his/her misfortune. Today is all about picking yourself up and owning up to your responsibilities.

[ronz_rodz]

depende ra jud... if they take the responsibility over their child then there's nothing wrong.. but if modagan then way ayo

[sandsss]

Normal ra. Basta wala lang niya gipasagdan iyang anak.

[PUTHAW OG TUMOY]

no problem basta gi amuma ang bata....

[blank0000]

dpndi kng iyng g.angkon iyng ank...kng g.angkn ky responsable kng wla then IRRESPONSABLE AND IMMATURE...

[sexyjanes]

para lng nko ha.... ok ra man naay anak ang lake as long as dli cla kasado sa girl...

[Emzs]

Fertile og sperm...hahaha

nyahahaha,

[dangelndisguise]

depende...

kng dghn ug anak sa lain2x ug bae. kani a big No jud sa akoa
kng naa nay anak bsta he takes his responsibilities aw okey pa
bsta single pa jud cya pure dili pa kasado.. complicated nmn gud kaayu ug kasado cla then wla na clay klaro.

samut ug ang bae na iyang gianakan ky samukan aw. gubot jud ..