None of you are experts, so please, stay behind the line. If you are told about the line, the line is still there. Why in the world would anyone be offended by being told where the line is? Even those in the US military ... yes there are a few here at iSTORYA ... don't claim to know anything more than what they know first hand. This is not about you getting in trouble when you empathize with people, but time and time again, you play the "I'm being bullied" card. Every time any user plays that card, they will hear from me ... so that yes, you are allowed to play that card. You are not a superhero. Take off your superhero tights and let others fight their own battles/discussions.