HELP Am I Doing the Right Thing?

[black_vixen]

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Whats your idea kaha miss. soft why na ingun ana inyong marriage?
unsa kaha mga aspects na kulang nnyo? Quality-time? i guess naa reason y u experience ni nimo.
cguro if i were in your shoe, m.affected sad ko sa g.buhat sa guy na nag.pabaya sa iyang self, thinking
na nag.drugs xa..nag.expect jud ko nga m.HAPPY xa sa laing girl kay LOVe man kaha to nya kaysa nko.
pero seeing him like that murag m.louy ko. murag ako nlang xa pasaylo-un pra m.tarung xa.
dn sa inyong serious talk unsa man inyong mga nsabutan kaha? unsa mga solutions..

[cebu1029]

he left me bcoz dle na daw ko niya love and that he falls for someone else..we dont have a kid and thats one of the reasons daw..

you were married with this guy? that sucks! at least wala man mo kid. Move on! sakit... but what can you do?

[tuWaD!!!]

soft, any updates?

[soft]

[quote=black_vixen ]
Whats your idea kaha miss. soft why na ingun ana inyong marriage?
unsa kaha mga aspects na kulang nnyo? Quality-time? i guess naa reason y u experience ni nimo.
cguro if i were in your shoe, m.affected sad ko sa g.buhat sa guy na nag.pabaya sa iyang self, thinking
na nag.drugs xa..nag.expect jud ko nga m.HAPPY xa sa laing girl kay LOVe man kaha to nya kaysa nko.
pero seeing him like that murag m.louy ko. murag ako nlang xa pasaylo-un pra m.tarung xa.
dn sa inyong serious talk unsa man inyong mga nsabutan kaha? unsa mga solutions..
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i dont know ive been asking him bout that pero wala daw sa ako ang deprensya..well ive fianlly decided not to see him anymore kay gkapoyan anko paminaw sa iya mga lies..

[soft]

soft, any updates?

hmm ive finallly decided not see him anymore...i really appreciate all ur advices guys! tnks and by the way im planning to apply in a call center pero i stll have to undergo training kay mura glumotan na akong mga english and i need to praktis amrican accent..but the thing is 8 hrs ang training and 8 hrs pud akong duty..kaya kaha ni nako? ive been working in mepz for 5 yrs but i wana see if i could go beyond pa sa ako work karon...and besides i need mor money..sayangan bya ko mo resign f ever makapasar ko sa call center kay relax ra man gud akong work karon den dli pud pressured...pls enlighten me...

[cebu1029]

are you going into the call center industry because of the money? Remember there are also bad things about the call center industry! foremost are the health problems!

[chormatus]

You would want to change jobs for you to earn more? The truth miss soft, is you will never have more. By the time you get a better paying job, your lifestyle changes, your buying behavior changes and you end up wanting for more. Contentment and wise spending of our resources is the key.

You are thinking of working in the call center from your work in MEPZ which you described as "relax." Call center jobs pay well because the kind of work and the time schedule has a negative repercussions in our health. Our normal sleeping habit is disturbed, that is why a person working at night or early dawn for prolonged period of time suffers from different diseases including heart diseases and cancer (especially when coupled with unhealthy lifestyle practices).

Job in call center per se is not bad. The problem is we use our bodies differently from what it is supposed to be doing over a prolonged period of time. Besides you don't take a job just because its high paying. In Gallup organization's survey in North America, pay is not even in the top 5 list of the reasons why employees stay in their jobs. Your job has a lot of bearing in your happiness.

[soft]

You would want to change jobs for you to earn more? The truth miss soft, is you will never have more. By the time you get a better paying job, your lifestyle changes, your buying behavior changes and you end up wanting for more. Contentment and wise spending of our resources is the key.

You are thinking of working in the call center from your work in MEPZ which you described as "relax." Call center jobs pay well because the kind of work and the time schedule has a negative repercussions in our health. Our normal sleeping habit is disturbed, that is why a person working at night or early dawn for prolonged period of time suffers from different diseases including heart diseases and cancer (especially when coupled with unhealthy lifestyle practices).

Job in call center per se is not bad. The problem is we use our bodies differently from what it is supposed to be doing over a prolonged period of time. Besides you don't take a job just because its high paying. In Gallup organization's survey in North America, pay is not even in the top 5 list of the reasons why employees stay in their jobs. Your job has a lot of bearing in your happiness.

thnx chormatus i just want to help my family man gud most especially my brothers and sisters to get an education since my parents cannot afford and my salary is not enough...i really wanted to earn more not just for myself but to my family..but anyways ill try to think it over...

[chormatus]

thnx chormatus i just want to help my family man gud most especially my brothers and sisters to get an education since my parents cannot afford and my salary is not enough...i really wanted to earn more not just for myself but to my family..but anyways ill try to think it over...

That is very commendable - a noble desire.

[frenchfries]

hala oy1kasakit ba ana dong?