There are lots of reasons why mangabit ang wife/husband. (extra curricular activities)
1.)Maybe bec.the relationship is already getting sour, mora ba ug daily routine nalang kada adlaw ang gibuhat kay puro man busy sa work, come home,eat, sleep and go to work again?
2.)Bec.of loneliness kay kanunay wala iyang partner sa balay kay toa sa barkada ga inum o sa sugalan, or abroad kaha ?
3.) basin mag segi nalang sila away, dili magka sinabot kay mga taas ug pride and the house is like a hell?
4.) Wala na ang thrill sa ilang relationship esp. in bed?
5.)Basin salbahis ang partner and gusto niyang manimaws sa gibuhat sa partner and wants to get even?
6.) They dont spend time and talk anymore about thier feelings and the good old days?
7.) and many more............
For me, the first thing to do is to find time to TALK about their feelings and their problem in a low tone voice para dili mosamot ang away, kamo rang duha ang naay problema, walay labot ang silingan nga maka dungog kon mag siningitay mo....never walkout at the course of a heated arguments coz if you do, the problem gets worser and the pain lingers. Be open to all criticisms after all, it is a constructive one. Be ready to compromise,since both are aiming for a goal- HAPPY MARRIAGE!
Do not hire somebody yet to monitor, its just a waste of hard earned money. Do it yourself muna coz basin naglibog lang ka sa imong gut feelings/ intuitions. Spreading your suspicions to other people will only create more trouble at the end kay if dili diay tinood unya napahiya na hinoon mong duha? It is not only you, your partner and the kids, but the whole family both sides ang ma affected...ulaw kaayo diba?
Kon mo accept,,,i know it really hurts, but then examine your conscience,what about the kids
well, its up to you if kaya pa nimo to start all over again or go to the next level to make him/her choose between you or the other person? Ang lawyer na ang bahala if both of you choose to separate.
On the other hand, if sa imong pag surveilance niya you think daku ang percentage nga nag loko jud then its already time to hire somebody to monitor. He must be equiped w/ camera and etc. to present the proof.
But to top it all, In marriage, whether abroad or not, We must keep the communication lines always burning.
What is P1- 5.00 worth Texting sweet nothing that makes anyone very kilig ?
Sure I did this to my hubby,,,,even if both of us are already old but still young at heart. hehehe