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[WinFlo]

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to everybody who gave me their opinion(s), thank you very much. we'll last week I did what others may think is wrong. i called the girl and talked to her. i found a piece of paper with a phone number and a woman's name. and i have been debating whether i should call that number or not for days, besides everytime i think about calling the number mangurog ko ug mamugnaw. but last saturday i finally had the courage to dial the number. ni admit man ang girl nga uyab sila and that wala daw siya kahibalo nga minyo pa diay ako bana kay ang iya sulti daw sa girl is buwag na siya sa iya wife. taas2x sad storya namo sa girl uy (sos, daku kaayo to mabayran lagi naku kay cellfon gud ako gitawagan).

when she chatted with my husband and told him nga nanawag ko sa iyaha puerte niya suko-a. gitulisok jud ko ug gibalikas pag-ayo, he said i had no right daw to call her. mura na nuon ug ako ang sad-an. ngano daw la ko ni ask niya kung kinsa to nga number ngano nanawag pa jud ko. and he even denied writing the number and pretended nga naglisod siya hinumdum sa name sa girl. di daw familiar sa iyaha. and he said nga chatmate lang daw sila and that nag wonder siya ngano ni angkon ang girl nga uyab siya. ingon ako bana nga siguro nag assume ang girl nga uyab sila.

men, miski masakpan na maayo pa jud kaayo mangita ug lusot. oh well. makarma unta sila.

[n`gel]

@WinFlo: Unsa man kaha'y reason sa imo husband nga nag-ingon ana man siya nimo? Besides the fact nga imo siya giprangkahan ug ingon nga di gyud ka mamugos niya ug moingon siya dili naka niya love. Haaaay.. he's probably trapped inside the world of thrills... new acquaintances... new pursuit. It was just right that you talked to the girl... I just don't understand why she had to tell on you... what I initially expected was that girl would be furious at him for lying to her that he was married... and now your husband is mad at you. What the!

He is cheating and it's very obvious and it's hurting you. Do you think he's gone a step higher and have met or dated with these girls in person? Yes, you can actually sue... you just need hard evidence. Basta kanang gestures like holding hands and sleeping over even without the actual act is considered adultery naman.

You need to make it clear to him that you don't want a cheating husband. He needs to feel the consequences of his actions... and the consequences should be real. If you can't take it anymore, leave! Wala nay martyr karong mga panahona. If I were you I would think about leaving too... if you're not ready yet... start readying yourself. Lisud kaayo na nimo mapugngan because even though these girls are saying wala silay kalibutan nga minyo na imo bana... naa may will imo bana nga i-conceal na nga fact from them.

Gusto gyud siya moduwa ug laing team.

[monrose29]

@WinFlo:

ma ayong adlaw nmo diha mam, mang hina-ot ko na-a ka sa ma ayong pang lawas karon adlawa, ang ako lang gyud ika tambag nmo mam noh kay biya-e nalang na imong bana, ako mo angkon ko nga palakero pod ko pero single pa man ko, lahi nman gud nah nga situation kong minyo na ang usa ka tawo unya palakero lang gihapon,

ato neh tagsa2x-on pag subay ang imong problema, deli pod baya lalim nga makig buwag sa imong bana labi na kasal mo sa simbahan og tinod anay gyud mong na higugma-a to each other, mangutana lang ko mam sa katong uyab pa kamong duha or wala po ma kasal cge na nehh og chat imong bana? kay kana man gud ang chat mam mura neh sya og bisyo like drugs bah nga maka adik, og maka apektar jud neh sa inyong relationship,

wala ba moy mga previous fight before or na-ay mga butang nga inyong gi lalisan that until now wala pa ninyo ma resolve or na-a ba syay gusto nga wala nmo ma hatag, lets go back to the time when your husband started to change, kay kong deli neh sya in ani imong bana before so na-a jud usa ka butang nga nag tukmod niya to do that things, and kong imong bana cge nag chat before sa katong uyab pa mo og daghan ng babaye nga gika bu-angan sa net....kana murag ma-o gyud na ang problema, nga dapat angay na jud kang mo palayo sa imong bana...

ayaw e sacrifice imong ka ugalingon mam, karon deli pa ka ayo nahh grabe inyong ayaw basin mo abot ang time nga ma dapatan naka sa imong bana, kasagaran ra bah mga pinay noh mga martyr ka ayo, kasabot man ko mam nga deli sayon ang pag give-up sa tawo nga imong gihigugma og gipakaslan, apan deli kana rason nga imo lang pod e sakripisyo imong ka ugalingon,

mentras sayo pa mam, hinay2x nah og pang hipos sa imong mga sanina bya-e na imong bana, u already did your part so whats next? enough na dont argue with him anymore, masakitan lang unya ka kong the next day lain napod nga girl iyang maka chat, unya lalis napod mo,

naka hibaw naman ka sa tino-od nga uyab jud sila.. unya unsa may imong buhaton? sos mam ayaw sayanga imong beauty anang imong bana oi. mag mahay ra sya.. leave him alone, kong mo gokod sya nmo, ayaw pod dayon og sugot2x... basin usa ka kablit lang pod sa imong bana ma sugot dayon ka.. pakipot pod gamay bahhhh.. ana lang gud na....

again, again, bya-e na imong bana, unya mag pa sexy kag ma ayo,( kita dayon ta, hehehehe joke) bitaw mam, move on jud ayaw pagpaka martyr, lisod na gali pangita money karon nya imo pa jud lisod-lisoron imong imong life,



deri nalang kutob mam og goodluck nalang nmo... ma ayong pasko og bulahang bag-ong tu-ig




Salamat,

Noy_Noah

[fanhan]

wow hehe. .di ba noy kulas man na?

@WinFlo:
bo sanchez said or something to this effect: "ladies, if your husband cheats on you, don't nag. pack his things/clothes and quietly leave it outside your house. DO NOT. i repeat, DO NOT ever let your husbad treat you like that."

winflo, sometimes man gud mam men treat us the way they want because we let them. as for confronting the other gurls, i usually don't recommend it. para nako, issue man gud na between just the TWO of you. para nako confronting "the other woman", isn't the perfect way to get your husband back. you know why? your husband KNOWS what he is doing. cheating is something that is pre-meditated. mao na, mo hatag gani ug excuse ang lake na wa niya tuyoa or he didn't know what he was doing, nah ambot lang. it's a dangerous thing that you married a man who doesn't know what he's doing..

good luck...

[r0mm3L]

hi guyz

what can you advice for some1 who always afraid to fall inlove....especially to those girls who are:

extremely outgoing
hilig ug night life (abot ug 5 pm sa balay gkan laag kuyog laki)
"red horse girl"
super friendly sa mga guyz

hehehehe......mamatay man gud ko sa selos ani wehehehee

thnx

[monrose29]

bai rommel, usa ra jud akong masulti bai.. kong deli nmo kaya ayaw nalang masakitan lang ka...

[r0mm3L]

so what do you of that kind of bayi bai?

[crush_23]

hi guyz

what can you advice for some1 who always afraid to fall inlove....especially to those girls who are:

extremely outgoing
hilig ug night life (abot ug 5 pm sa balay gkan laag kuyog laki)
"red horse girl"
super friendly sa mga guyz

hehehehe......mamatay man gud ko sa selos ani wehehehee

thnx

dont b afraid to fall inluv, its a natural feeling kay our harts mo beat man jud to sum1 else...

so, ur inlove with sum1 nga ingun ana??question is, inluv ba sad sya nimo kung ikaw ra nagluv niya, patya nalang na...sakit2x lang ka imo dughan....but if luv ka niya, she has to do her share..she can change herself bcoz of u.....simple as that....

[r0mm3L]

dont b afraid to fall inluv, its a natural feeling kay our harts mo beat man jud to sum1 else...

so, ur inlove with sum1 nga ingun ana??question is, inluv ba sad sya nimo kung ikaw ra nagluv niya, patya nalang na...sakit2x lang ka imo dughan....but if luv ka niya, she has to do her share..she can change herself bcoz of u.....simple as that....

nah di raba ko mo love ug tao if they dont love me back....if she dont love me back...dat not a problem pila ray pangita lain....pananglitan magka uyab mi mo workout bah kaha, or it will complicate things.....awww abangan sa susunod heehehhehe

[crush_23]

@rommel

naa ra jud na nmo tawn..syempre d ka nahan nga mag-ingon ana sya...imong buyagon gud, act as a boyfren who cares so much for ur gurl...but if u tolerate her lang, wel la ka blema d ay.....every relationship mo work man jud if magkacnabot lang mo nya luv ninyo ang usag-usag...its a matter of telling each other unsa inyo gusto ug dili gusto....its up to her kung usbon niya iya style and if she doesnt want to hurt u, magchange mana sya..... if d gurl truly luvs u, she'd respect whatever it is u want to make ur relationship work.