With or Without Uyab?

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hmmm very very insightful

i guess ni evolve na ang topic to: Can a gf/bf hinder your self-actualization? In this case, should you get rid of her/him?

mmm...i guesss a lot of factors have to be considered...maturity of the person, intensity of the relationship, emotional investment and what else....i really think it does not necessarily hinder but somehow having a gf/bf takes part in molding you to become the kind of person that one has become...

[Pinkdimensions]

spontaneous? mmmm i find this idea dumb ... hihi.. well of course deli man tanan according sa imong plans.. but for sure only 10% of is uncontrolable and the rest would all depend of your sanity.
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i guess ni evolve na ang topic to: Can a gf/bf hinder your self-actualization? In this case, should you get rid of her/him?
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factors to consider usa lang.. just simply understand him.. if he/she can't.. drop him.. love can wait and love understands... but emotionaly driven g/b can't understand this.. because their stuck on the idea that.. if you wanted to be happy..follow ur heart.. misleading! in short " bahala ug saging basta labing"

your thoughts...

[nemmo723]

spontaneous? mmmm i find this idea dumb ... hihi.. well of course deli man tanan according sa imong plans.. but for sure only 10% of is uncontrolable and the rest would all depend of your sanity.

may i ask why you find spontaneous dumb? no spontaneity at all can be so dull and boring too you know. and personally, we really cannot tell for sure how much is controllable. there are some cases wherein we really have 0% control na jud. what would you do when that circumstance happens? its moments like these that i'd just jump in and see what happens next.. intuitively..

factors to consider usa lang.. just simply understand him.. if he/she can't.. drop him.. love can wait and love understands... but emotionaly driven g/b can't understand this.. because their stuck on the idea that.. if you wanted to be happy..follow ur heart.. misleading! in short " bahala ug saging basta labing"

i believe understanding is a progressive process. its not contained in just a single point in time. sometimes, he/she can't understand you now, but in the future, maybe he/she can. love is not a one way street. love also entails that we help others understand us. diba?

[jd_iceblizzard]

pwede both...? heheh!

[Pinkdimensions]

controllable? mao gani naay 10%.. kay mao na syay uncontrollable..and ang the rest is controlllable.. i wouldnt be surprise if ur stuck with fate r u?.. and yes nindot ang spontaneous.. pero can u give exact scenario nga spontaneous unya nalipay mong duha? just dont include nga either of you has planned it ha..

cases uncontrollable na gyud? i think ur just being unreasonable maong deli nimo ma control.. ur heard is on top of ur heart.. thus, be sane enough to use it over ur emotions. pero mao lagi.. if gusto ka malipay sunda ug unsay gisulte sa imong kasing2x...

love also entails that we help others understand us. diba? Smiley
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cguro..but if naa kay bf nga who notices life is too short and values time ... helping u understand him would be a waste of time.. .. call me insensitive and ill like the idea.. hihi..

[jd_iceblizzard]

ana man akong Mama nga dili mag-uyab2x para makatiwas ko sa akong pagskwela..

2o lang ko ni Mama oi... hehe!

[Pinkdimensions]

bwhahahahhahaha

[Pinkdimensions]

pero lahi sad ako-a.. ingon akong bro..dli daw ko paso college.. kay nag uyab2x nadaw ko.. naka human gani og postgraduate.. hihih..

[jd_iceblizzard]

aw imo sad na... basta 2o lng ko ni Mama dyud...

cya baya nagpakaon nako... hehehe!

[Pinkdimensions]

hhahaha.. ahaka gud! hihihhi.. bitaw bro.. mau sad to akong mama ug papa.. wala man nanghilabot sa akong pag biga2x ug sayu.. naa man sad ko agi.. hihih

so going back sa topic...pag uyab2x mo ug mosugot inyung parents..kay kung dli ..ayaw nalang mo ug pugos kay deli unya mo ka uli sa inyu ug kakaon..