If you were the husband/wife....

[twalalyn]

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kani bitaw na mga klase sa babae kay og istoryahon ni nimo kay tarong kaayo... abi nimo imong bana naay sala gyud...pero og imo gyud mahibaw-an tanan nahitabo ang gurl naa gyud syay participation para makahimo og sayop ang laki... it takes two to tango. don't tell me unwilling ang bae ani... nagbiga gyud ni silang duha ts... mu-ingon lang og joke joke... makalagot gyud og huna huna na naa babae ani sa kalibutan mga homewrecker nagbaha na sila ron. pray for your marriage ts. i am sure makaya ra ni nimo.

Thanks,spike!I will be strong & continue to pray...

[twalalyn]

Now,I wonder what her husband has to say about what I said on the e-mail.

[alphafemale]

in every decisions na imu buhaton make sure nga ge think pud nimu ang welfare sa imu kids., lisod mag grow up sa borken family based on experience ( product ko sa broken family) bisag kaya pa nimu ihatag ang tanan ang anak mangita jud og amahan. i know sa pag ka karon clouded pa kaau imu mind with anger but in time ma heal rana much better jud if mag storya mo kanang sincere kung unsa jud ang kulang sa imuha part then after ana u can decide if ipadayon paba nimu or dili na jud ka..

sorry sa ako advice.

[twalalyn]

@alpha:salamat!i did ask myself over & over hangtod karn kn unsay kuwang ug Asa ko dapit nasayop and I even asked him the same questions...he said cyay nasayop...If I decide to leave w/ the kids,I will still let him and have time for them to spend.Di ko eng ana ka selfish nga asta ako mga anak apilon nako sa kalagot...

[alphafemale]

soon i hope ma okay ramu sis., lahi pud ako situation sa imu but regarding ghapon sa ako partner, nag ask pud ko many times asa ko nag kulang unsa ako sayop unya tubagon lang ko og iyaha jud daw Sala which is very makasapot kay kita mga babae need nato og concrete na answer kanang e han.ay jud while ang laki para madali mu angkon nalang which is maka add up sa kalagot hinoon.

[astro boy]

Thanks astro boy!That's what I did and got both sides even from the girl...I just want to move on & I've prayed to guide us coz I can't be sure where we are heading.It's only been 3 days so I know I have so much pain & anger & just too much thinkin that I feel lyk my brain is also ready to burst.

It's so brave of you na considering what happened to your marriage you still managed to compose yourself. You're one brave woman.

For me, if the marriage is worth saving then i guess it deserves a chance. But if saving the marriage just because sayangan ka na mag buwag mo then its not worth it and the relationship will be unhealthy. This is just my opinion coz im in no position to give advice about marriage coz im not in your shoes yet.

Just continue to balance things and do what you think is right. Mind over heart is the formula for this...

[twalalyn]

soon i hope ma okay ramu sis., lahi pud ako situation sa imu but regarding ghapon sa ako partner, nag ask pud ko many times asa ko nag kulang unsa ako sayop unya tubagon lang ko og iyaha jud daw Sala which is very makasapot kay kita mga babae need nato og concrete na answer kanang e han.ay jud while ang laki para madali mu angkon nalang which is maka add up sa kalagot hinoon.

I'm hoping soon too...Eng-ana jud cguro tah,sis...

[twalalyn]

It's so brave of you na considering what happened to your marriage you still managed to compose yourself. You're one brave woman.

For me, if the marriage is worth saving then i guess it deserves a chance. But if saving the marriage just because sayangan ka na mag buwag mo then its not worth it and the relationship will be unhealthy. This is just my opinion coz im in no position to give advice about marriage coz im not in your shoes yet.

Just continue to balance things and do what you think is right. Mind over heart is the formula for this...

I'm always compose prolly coz that's how I handle things & even at work. You are right!I told him to leave if he is not happy,don't stay bcoz ur reason is we have kids,leave if u don't have any love for me & I said don't stay if your reason is not enough for you to change & work to earn my respect and trust back bcoz we are back to zero at this moment...I also ask myself why I should stay or not but I want to think things through.

[myefan]

hahaha...joke? mao na uso nga reason ron i think......mao sad na rason sa girl ug sa ako hubby...joke ra daw ang i miss you nila.....and that ang mga pics nila..picture2x lang kay dghan man sila kuyog....but d bah, taga kuyog naa jud sila moment? hahahaha...and the reason why dili sila mosulti sa ako kung mgkuyog sila kay basin daw lainon nako sabot and mhurt ko...? wow, o d ba concern sila nako? hahaha...funny...

[myefan]

and yah, mao bisan sakit, go na lang.....bcoz u love your kid....and by the way, sukad ato, ngkagubot2x na ako fam til now....don't know asa m kutob...and the gurl, she's a gamer.boy or girl, uyabon niya...so, bisan ala sila relasyon, don't you think you will allow your husband to be with this kind of girl?and until now, dili nko masabtan why nglagot ako hubby nga ngselos ko ato....and he will always insist ala xa sala.....nga why xa nglagot nga d ba ako man dapat? niundang ra ang girl ug samok pagkauyab niya......but don't know sad......so far, ala na man