23 Anyos Pero DILI PA Pwede Maguyab-uyab

[yiennahs]

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easy kaau para ninyo nga muingun ug teach your parents
teach them how to catch a fish etc
wa man gud mo kasuway nga pirting dakuag responsibilidad mau ng sayun sayun ra ninyo pagsulti ana

kung makasinati mo unsay naagian namu basig mas makasabot pamo
oh well di lang pud ko maghandum ana kay bad na
learn to appreciate how easy your life is mintras single pamu kay not all people are like you
there are some who have to spend most of their time working for the whole family
they have to sacrifice
and have to mature early

and to TS and those who experience the hardness of life... i know kapoy na but tiis lang kay di ni for-ever

[miokz]

yeah sis, you're right. it's always easier being said than done.
pero im glad coz all of their points here, somehow, gave me idea on what to do.
lisud jud kung kita ang gisaligan, lisud modagan sa responsibility. lisud jud kay your leaving your parents without any choice. and ang masa nakapa lisud pa jud is the fact nga "parents" nimo sila. and whatever shit happens, they'll always be your "parents". thats why im still staying and will be leaving kung mahilom na ni sila.

[mikevincentryan]

sa imo situation bro, murag lisod jud pod.. sa imo man gud gi asa ang monetary support maong di pa jud sila mo sugot ug naa sila ka bahin sa imo priorities... mangigi jud na sila! ang ako lang... continue sa jud ka ug support nila, nya pag abot jud sa sakto nga time, pasabton na nimo sila nga ang imong happiness napod ug imo companion mo take place.... as of now 23 yrs old is too young to settle down... kani imo is just to escape responsibilities.. naka agi man gud ko ani nga age... kung hadlok pod ka nga di mo magkadayon sa imo uyab? aw sayon ra na, di na cya para imo... as of now i think help your family to stand. not spoon feeding ha... help them by teaching your younger sibling how to make money to turn over the responsiblity when time comes ok?

[kimleeKINO_choi]

Toinks...na unsa..ngano wala mnpod nangita work imo parents? na unsa..It's not that I am judging them ryt away BUT it's not your obligation to feed them forever NA WALA RAPOD SILAY GILIHOK. Ok rmn obligado ka nila ba pero too much nalang jud na wala sila ng lihok ila kaugalingon para magampanan ila pgka ginikanan dha ninyo...OMG 5 namo daan? then napun-an napod? Ngano na ingn ana imo parents diay TS? Kaluoy gd imo mn na shoulder tanan responsibilities na DAPAT UNTA ILAHA. Tabla raman ga minyo ka kay bag-o napod nanaganak imo mom daun ikw mn jpon mupakaon ana imo manghud. Ipasabot imo Parents TS oie nga dili forever ikaw mo shoulder tanan expenses sa family kay naa pod kay dreams na imoha sa future.

[cassiopeia]

are you their son or an investment?

perfect! hahaha

[megle]

Hadlok ra ang imong parents nga makaburod ka or maka asawa ka kay imbes na hatagan nimo sila, ang imong kwarta ma ngadto na sa imong sariling pamilya. lisod na nga sitwasyon, pero abot ra jud ng time nga mo ingon sila nga cge dong pwede kana manguyab or mag asawa.

Same sa ako, dili pa ko gina pangasawa sa akong parents kay na-a pakoy youngest brother na wa pa ka tapos ug college.

Hulat hulat lang TS.

[rejiel]

your parents is teaching you how to become responsible, but in reality, they are the ones who need to responsible...tsk...

[jcgoyong]

since you have the mentioned na ikaw bread winner, i guess it would be safe to assume na ikaw dapat ang head of the family
unless if you dont act like one

But if you are, i BELIEVE you have ALL THE RIGHT to scold your parents
You must DEMAND respect atleast since imo na na ka2ngud
You dont have to leave your parents
you just need to explain to them what you need (like a normal head of the family would do)
they cant do anything about it anyway. It will be their lost if they wont comply

but the thing is, you have to assure them you can handle things your way
provided that they cooperate (that is if you can)
If you like your life as stagnant as this,
then i guess you should find someone who would understand your dilemma if you are planning to settle down

but if you want to grow, Then i guess teaching them a lesson or two would suffice
but dont overdo it coz they might hate you for that
If they cant find a job, let them do business.
You working for them FOREVER wont do you any good
you - and i mean your mom, dad, siblings, and most specially YOURSELF

HAVE SOME GUTS

cry if you want but thats normal when you love
you just need to be FIRM

get a shoulder to cry on

[frankoibakie]

ayaw anara imo parents na magsalig nmu, naa pod ka kaugalingun na gusto...if dli nka mu suport nila i'm sure mangeta na sila way maka kwarta...sala pod na nmu ky imo man g anad..tagae na capital para mka tnida ginagmay para naa incom..looy au ka if cg sila salig nmu..

[mlnsgbn]

someday ull know y ing ana sila ka strict