Asawa wala nay gana makig tagay sa lawasnong kalipay!

[cobraKing]

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retire na jud c manang ug manoy..

[miokz]

try to ask the wife why.
this could be a serious problem labi na kung minyo nah.

[bolabog]

70% both parties have kabit! most likely...

[RemohDude]

kuwang rana sa TDK oi..

[chase328]

Marriage is a commitment, to love, romance and cherish as long as they both shall live. If these are well taken by both partners, the word love alone speaks a thousand words. True love is unconditional. Let us not give our partners any reason to go astray. We should always find a way to please each other. Be a girl scout / boy scout - laging handa. hehe

We all go through the menopausal (women) and andropausal (men) stage. Our sexual drive will diminish as we age, as the saying goes....
" huna huna nalang ang ga daku" and thats very normal, but it doesnt mean we love our partner less.

Life is how we make it, we may be old but still feeling young at heart. Date w/ your husband/wife as often as possible coz Life is short.

Nindot jud ni imong gi-ingon mam..but on my situation my husband aquired an incurable disease mao nawagtangan nako ug gana nya...i mean, i do love him but to the extent ba i-apil nako akong kaugalingon?kinahanglan ba na ma-apil pod ko? uhaw xa sexually kay he works abroad..nag-away mi and we exchanged hurtful words..now, i've have decided to part ways with him..he had seek help pero dismayado lang ko kay tu-a xa nagpatambal sa bisaya, ok ra manta nako gani lang ang naa sa iyang hunahuna na maayo pa jud xa, mubo ra kaayo iyang stay diri kung mo uli xa matunga iyang oras sa pagpatambal na dili ko kasabot ug diri namo sa iyang anak...protected ko against the disease but that doesn't guarantee na dili ko matakdan even condoms don't promise a 100% protection..maghilak tawn ko everytime mahuman mi ug contact, dungan sa pag-ampo na dili ko ma-unsa...what shall i do? T_T

[kajrot1]

lisoda aning blemaha oi... ngano man jd hilig man og mangitag daghang partner na pwd raman unta kamoton kung mingawon kaysa nig ka human kita maoy mahimong masakiton.

[Iamalbertrebs]

Kung ang laki maoy wala nay gana, patan awa og X, or sa wife make yourself look sexy and smells good, if ang babay maoy walay gana, gikapoy rana brod ayaw pugsa

[kajrot1]

@ Iamalbertrebs
pwd pd gikapoy ka stress or gikapoy kay gikan na ^_^ hehe

[Iamalbertrebs]

mao sad.. pde pud gikapoy sa lain nga taw

[Snowfly]

Nindot jud ni imong gi-ingon mam..but on my situation my husband aquired an incurable disease mao nawagtangan nako ug gana nya...i mean, i do love him but to the extent ba i-apil nako akong kaugalingon?kinahanglan ba na ma-apil pod ko? uhaw xa sexually kay he works abroad..nag-away mi and we exchanged hurtful words..now, i've have decided to part ways with him..he had seek help pero dismayado lang ko kay tu-a xa nagpatambal sa bisaya, ok ra manta nako gani lang ang naa sa iyang hunahuna na maayo pa jud xa, mubo ra kaayo iyang stay diri kung mo uli xa matunga iyang oras sa pagpatambal na dili ko kasabot ug diri namo sa iyang anak...protected ko against the disease but that doesn't guarantee na dili ko matakdan even condoms don't promise a 100% protection..maghilak tawn ko everytime mahuman mi ug contact, dungan sa pag-ampo na dili ko ma-unsa...what shall i do? T_T

chase328
Life might be too harsh on us at times, but I believe every lessons life is giving.. is making us more stronger as a person so that we can tackle back again whatever upcoming storms that might be coming our way...

People who hungers and thirst for emotional and physical needs seek it from others to compliment whats lacking w/n the bounds of marriage,we have to examine the cause and effect,a person longing for love or a person deprived or incapacitated of his/her needs would sort to seek other arms for comfort, right?

What am trying to say is, nangyari na yan, we could no longer turn back the hands of time.He needs help right now and as a wife dapat kita ang maka intindi, karamay for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, so why not help each other? open your mind lang coz we are just human beings,we sometimes stumble and fall. Yet capable to rise up again.

I know its not that easy for you, but It would hurt you the more if you will keep on blaming each other and hayaan nalang na mawasak ang once a beautiful relationship you had.

You are both victims of circumstances because of distance and the line of his work.. . and I suggest both of you must consult a doctor about that incurable disease you mentioned, am positive that he will cooperate w/ you since sya baya ang naka sala nimo. How can we make things right if we keep on doing wrong?

Families are torn into pieces when the husband or the wife does not have enough time for each other or have some sort invisible walls built around themselves...If we truly love a person, giving up on each other is beyond our wildest imaginations.

Whatever you do, please ask God for guidance, he cares and will always will.