unsa imong dapat buhaton if your the other woman

[yumi_0379]

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di man kuno na supak sa 10 commandments bai.. basta dili lang mo neighbors..

hehehe yah ryt!

[apps]

di man kuno na supak sa 10 commandments bai.. basta dili lang mo neighbors..

hehehe do not kabet thy nibors wife? hehehe payter

[babie984]

yaw ana sis woi. your still 21, you have a great future ahead na d kaw other woman noh! but still your choice.

[babylove]

we may give u all these advices but ikaw ra ghapon ang mo-decide sa imo self. you should have prevented yourself to be on that kind of situation sa sugod palang if dli ka gusto'g complicated nga life. mabalik ra na ang tanan sa imo mam. what goes around, comes around.

if i were you, end your relationship with ur boss. you can't be the other woman forever. have you ever placed urself on his wife's shoes? how would you feel? kanang happiness nimo with ur boss, temporary ra na coz he's not urs at all. u don't own him. imagina ra gud kung mahitabo na sa imo puhon2x.. ay ambot.

talk with your bf regarding the status of ur relationship, are you both still happy? do both of you need some space? karon nlang ka mosulti nga boring ang imo bf nga niabot mog 5 years? what really happened? you should talk about it.

don't rush. ur still young and sa imong description pa, ur sexy, tall and pretty. cguro kana imo boss wla na katilaw ug lain samtang ulitaw pa xa mao ng nag-ingon ana na. and also, don't forget to pray. pray for enlightenment.

[colby]

Mao ni mga thread na obvious na ang answer...tsk tsk

Naa na gud ka sa saktong edad, kabalo naka sa right and wrong, dapat pa jud ka mo ask..

[lovehurtszs]

u shud let go of that guy...

[bellah]

too baka anang love nimo sa imo bf wui...naa na gali ka bossing ingon pa gyud ka love nimo imong bf..ingna nalang ts imong bf oi nga naa nakay bossing nga makahatag sa imong kalipay...para sad tawn to dili mag mata og morning...anah rah ka sayon...good luck

[nitesky]

mao lagi ning di kau ko mo bisita diri sa Relationships nga sub board...

kasagaran man gud mo post diri ma wad-an og common sense...

@TS: you're the other woman.. imong boss dakong minyo.. bisan pag unsa pa ka perpekto, gwapo, taas, macho, hilomon, buotan, loving, caring, thoughtful, sweet ug unsa pa na diha, that will not deny the fact nga siya duna nay kabilinggan.. angay pa ba diay na ipangutana kung mgpadayon ba sa relasyon or dili??.. kung ibutang ta iyang buwagan iyang asawa para mag uban mo.. in the end what does that make you?? home wrecker? bisan pag mo ingon ka nga di ikaw ang hinungdan nganong makig buwag na siya sa iyang asawa, that will not prevent you from being labeled as such..

kana imong gibati sa imong boss natural ra na kay bag-o pa man mo.. dba sa katong imong kanhi uyab sa bag-o pa mo dba ingon ana sad mo??.. karon morag nag mahay nka.. kay ang imong boss is not who you think he is.. mao nay gi ingon og osaka.. osa kas na ilad..

tambag naku nimo.. nakalitan ra ka sa mga pang hitabo.. ayaw padala sa tama!.

<---- tuohi jud ni cya kay he has experience... hehehehe

[ain]

It’s not an easy position to be in. Most likely, you didn’t plan on it, and weren’t thrilled that it happened. It has, though, and even though you may feel you’ve made a mistake, it’s not that easy to correct. If you are finding yourself confused, upset, or feeling horrible about your relationship..... you need to ask yourself some question...
Before you can decide what to do, you need to take a good, long look at yourself and figure out how you got yourself into this situation. Remember to be honest with yourself..there is no point in lying to yourself, somewhere down inside you know the truth, anyway.


Is this really about him? Do you feel this man is your soul mate? Do you have a healthy respect for each other, communicate well, and feel that you cannot live without each other? If you had your pick of any man in the whole world, would you still pick him? If you ended it today, do you feel you would get over him and your life could go on? If so, then why are you putting yourself in this position? Perhaps this is about you? Have you suffered from low self esteem and been taken in by the attention he gave you? Do get an ego boost feeling that you can take him away from someone? Do you frequently find yourself in impossible relationships, perhaps indicating a fear of commitment or true one-on-one intimacy? If that is the case, then this relationship is not going to help you move on.

Just as important as your motives are his motives. Perhaps he does love you. Perhaps he is a good person who was unhappy and found himself in a situation where emotions got the best of him when he met his true love. If that is the case, expect him to do something about it. Give him a time limit, and stick to it.

If he claims an unhappy marriage, it’s just not enough of an excuse. If he is so unhappy that he felt like looking for another lover, why didn’t he just settle things with his wife first? Don’t allow him to treat you like a consolation prize, or a side hobby to help him get through his rough days. If he says there are complicating issues, such as children, family, financial problems, etc, then is he really in a position to become involved with someone else?


f he isn’t making any real efforts towards resolving his marriage to be with you, then he is not giving the respect you deserve and obviously not able or willing to fulfill all of your needs. If that’s the case, no matter how much it might hurt, the reality is you’d be better off finding someone who is willing and able.
Another thing to consider is, has he done this before? If having affairs is a hobby for him, no matter how you feel about him, you need to consider if you really want to get mixed up with him. After all, even if he leaves her and comes to you, are you sure he won’t continue with his extra-curricular activities behind your back? Do you really feel you could trust him? If not, does your relationship have much hope, even after his wife is out of the picture.

Don’t ever let feelings overrule your self respect and common sense. Thankfully, love is not as rare a thing as the movies and romance novels make it out to be. As humans, it is not that hard at all to love someone in our lives when we have a connection. The hard part is finding relationships where mutual respect, dignity, courtesy, honesty, cooperation, trust and courtesy are companions to love. Without these, love is not enough. If you both feel you have these, then expect him to do something about it, soon. If you don’t feel you have these, or if he hesitates to give them to you, then find the courage and strength within yourself to end the relationship and find them elsewhere. After all, you deserve them.

[sexyjanes]

ikaw kung asa jud ka happy... pero kung asa man gani imo gpili baruge jud na cya og dawata unsa ang mga umaabot na mga problema.