When your spouse tells you that you're free to make love with another...

[dearlabe]

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In a Christian or particularly Roman Catholic point of view, yes it is still a sin. That is why it is wise for those who want to get married to review the famous Matrimonial Vow:

"In the presence of God and these our friends I take thee to be my husband/wife, promising with Divine assistance to be unto thee a loving and faithful husband/wife so long as we both shall live.
to respect you in your successes and in your failures, to care for you in sickness and in health, to nurture you, and to grow with you throughout the seasons of life"

In short, this is a solemn agreement not only between two consenting human beings but also of the highest entity which is GOD.

So dapat gyud tingali in depth ang mga pre Cana seminar karon so that the soon-to-be married couples would realize that with this Christian view of marriage there really is no turning back, no return no exchange. And that marriage should only be done with reason on Love and love alone.

[tophat]

i think technically you can't call it cheating anymore, since there was a permission. that is, in the level of both parties. but in the eyes of the law, religion, and people, no matter what angle siya tan-awon, it is. haha


murag pareho ra sa nangawat. if you got something without permission from the owner, you can call it stealing. but if there was deliberate permission to get that object, then di na siya matawag og stealing. hehe.

very good analysis sis...id vote for this.

[walker]

@ts: EXCUSES! maayo kay ta anang rason² woi pra mpanalipdan atong mga sala.

and who the hell would someone allow you to make love with another kung minyo na mo? wtf. would you believe this story? haha

weh, ingna nlng nga you've made this thread for the sake of posting here in istorya. dghan na mo. POSER!

this is irrelevant to the thread discussion sir! if u have minimum intelligence and a modicum of respect, perhaps you should realize that other istoryans are posting meaningful responses to the discussion.

for the sake of posting here at istorya, lets be responsible istoryans with our responses please...

if her hubby gave her such permission, then who the hell are you to question his decision?

[walker]

open relationship then.
love is beyond wisdom. she does not judge what is right or wrong. - from someone

indeed so ...love does not know a wedding ring from an onion ring actually. love just can not be defined and trapped in a piece of paper.

[farmboy]

In a Christian or particularly Roman Catholic point of view, yes it is still a sin. That is why it is wise for those who want to get married to review the famous Matrimonial Vow:

"In the presence of God and these our friends I take thee to be my husband/wife, promising with Divine assistance to be unto thee a loving and faithful husband/wife so long as we both shall live.
to respect you in your successes and in your failures, to care for you in sickness and in health, to nurture you, and to grow with you throughout the seasons of life"

In short, this is a solemn agreement not only between two consenting human beings but also of the highest entity which is GOD.

from the point of view of law, marriage is contract, a civil institution. from the point of view of psychiatry, it is a theater of sexual and emotional urges. the church regards it as a sacrament. psychology sees it as a problem in behavior and adjustment. the cynic sees it as a trap for fools...if a spouse explicitly gives permission...so be it. cheating it is not!

[farmboy]

Basta married na gani, forever na gyud unta nga kamo ra gyung duha, kalain pud anang pang-hatag sa lain uy.

only diamonds are forever bro...

[Tirong-say]

only diamonds are forever bro...

agree, and somehow it is not impossible to have...

[analog man]

mao nga naay Lingam ug Yoni. pastilan. sorry jud.

[farmboy]

mao nga naay Lingam ug Yoni. pastilan. sorry jud.

OT: gi raid ang lingam kahapon brad...

[blu bizcuitz]

that would be nice...