need advice.. is it jealousy? or not?

[monrose29]

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Effective jud na bro para ma wala ang insecurities sa TS. The thought of her BF is still friends with his ex, means they didnt have a bad break up. It's a mutual thing. Para nako nag pa dala ra c TS sa iyang emotions.

but in the other side, maybe it could help sad cguro if the BF pod mag likay sa mga situation where deli malikayan nga ma apil gyud sa topic iyang x.... iya nalang e anticipate da-an bah nga in ana gyud para sad deli ka ayo awkward ang feeling sa iyang gf while in the process for adjustment

[Soul Doctor]

here's da story..

my boyfriend is 7yrs with his ex. since 4thyr hyskul uyab n cla. ngkauyab mi ako bf last year.. i know love au ko s ako bf but the problem is everytime ma mention ang name s girl n ex s ako bf di nku malikayan masakitan especially magmention iyang barkada about s past nla paghyskul. xmpre mgkta kta mn cla s iyang mga clasmyt before nya kyugon mn ko, nya ilang ibalik ila mga past memries so ako "OP", not da sense n pabay.an ko s ako uyab bt bcoz wa ko maistorya mao d nlng ko mutingog. "it hurts" pud esp pgmention s usa nya ka barkada n ana, if muari c .. (da ex of my bf) kuygn n2 outing ky lingaw sd to, wa to libog. kinda feeling n di nku maintindihan y dey need to mention such a name in front nku. i know d malikayan mgstorya cla about s girl but s prob is di sd nku malikayan masakitan.tao lng po ako.. db?

kani sd..

we are looking s photo album s pix s ako uyab with his younger sister, accidentally nakita nku ang pix s ex s ako uyab. then there my heart starts to pump faster! i feel like ngpalpitate ko nd i wanna cry, thinking nga y should i see some pix s ex nya? i dont really know wat to do.. then i slowly close da photo album then went to my room nd start to cry..

and da other thing pd,

ang ex s ako bf, g.idol s iyang cousin. i dont really know wat to do, everytime ma mention ang name s gurl... i tried to pretend not to be hurt but its getting worst! i feel like i dont exist!

please guys.. i need your comments.. advices..
what should i do?
i dont want to feel this way..
wer always fighting w/ my bf everytime that thing exist!

am i acting weird? or what?
i dont really know what to do, pls help..

It is just like buying a car from someone you know.
you would still find little things let in that car that was owned by the previous owner.
a stain,
a name written with pentel pen,
an id picture etc.

if you hate that or if you are not mature enough to handle it,
then you should not buy a used car.

try looking for a brand new boyfriend.
kanang walay barkada.

it is not about his love.
it is all about how you feel with your relationship.
if you are not happy--- then might as well get out of the relationship.

because you will never get used to it.

[sushikandi]

but in the other side, maybe it could help sad cguro if the BF pod mag likay sa mga situation where deli malikayan nga ma apil gyud sa topic iyang x.... iya nalang e anticipate da-an bah nga in ana gyud para sad deli ka ayo awkward ang feeling sa iyang gf while in the process for adjustment

Thats one very impt aspect u pointed out there bro. Well on both party dapat mature cla all about it.

[babyshar]

tnx sa tanan..your comments we're all appreciated.. for this past few weeks everyday prmi mi mg away ako bf.. dnt know y.. maybe because im tired or because i don't want to feel bad esp i got my board exam.. as days past by.. i realize how good my bf is.. for all the wrong things i've done..still he accept me as his girlfriend.

bsta everything now is in place, i thanks to all of you istoryans.. sis.. bro.. hays..

[MINE]

Confront him. tell him sa imong na feel, Ako, i really confronted him sa akong na feel. Sakit mn gud ka pirme xa mention sa name nga kamo bya mg.uban. mura ug mo shrink... So now, ok na.. Confront him lng gyud pra dli unfair sa imong part.

[Klave]

Lisud gyud na sis nga dako kaayo og impact ang ex niya sa family sa imong bf.

Grabe gyud au na impact sa hi skul friends, usually mao sad na sila imong friends for life...

So live with it, and ask your bf to help lessen the pain, like spending less time with family and the like.

Hopefully, he will understand. Heart issues gani...lisud au to stop feeling the hurt...though maanad ra ka madugay.

[babyshar]

mao lage lisod btw.. we really can't help ourselves but just to sit aside and be silent. its really hard to pretend to the world that your fine. ayt? well, every time they mention the name of the girl mu likay nlng ko so that i can't hear any words about her. like do things thats makes me busy..

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

well ana mn jud na ex jud to sa u bf so dili gyud to niya makalimtan para nako, ok ra man na imo gibuhat natural ra na ofcourse pd kinsa ba say di masakitan kung imention sa imo uyab iya ex but don't worry maabot ra ang panahon nga makalimtan na jud sa imo bf iya ex ug ikaw na jd iya pirmi handomon... hehehe

[babyshar]

yah, i agree to day.. its not easy pretending.. enx for understanding my side..

[coolgadgets]

be open to him sis.. tell him na mao na imu na feel.. pag heart to heart talk mo..