im very much oky with my in laws...
i guess natural lang kung naa masulti ang in laws nimu esp. if nag puyo ka with them coz lahi ka pagka raise sa imu parents and tanan gyud mo mag adjustanay.. but, para walay samok.. pag lahi nalang gyud mo and show them lang ghapon nga you respect them bsan unsa pa imu nadunggan...
I have no problem with my mother in law and my hubby does not have any problem with my parents too
mao jud na mahitabo kay sa panultihon pa "different strokes for different folks"....lainlain man mo ug values ug principles sa kinabuhi mao bitaw na you have to meet each other half way inorder to make it as one,ayaw huna2a nga lain sila nga tawo....owkee!
wa ko probs ako in-laws so far and thank god! on the other way around, ang ako side m a-oy lisod. my dad died of cancer but there is a certain aunt and uncle of mine na anad mo-commentaryo bisan u did ur best na. gamay ra amo family ug sila nalang bilin on my side...maka-feel ko kiwawan ako husband basta naa gathering or mo visit sa ila. i make sure na di nako biyaan ako hubby and i make my own ways na di nako sya expose kaau sa ila. he appreciated it pod. then ako na ngita pasangil for my aunt and uncle to understand.
in worse cases, kevs...ako beauty ky di sila ako immediate family ug y man ko mag-stress na mas pampered man ko sa pikas....(side ako hubby)!
as for me, thank god wala ra problem, even if my husband kay only on ra. buotan ra man kaayo ako mum in la and dad in law.
ako mga in-laws so far ok raman sila... pero didto lang ko sangit sa iyang mga iyaan... kay grabe maka himo ug mga stories... usahay lami kau ibugno nila... hahay... pero so far ok raman ang akong mga in-laws...
wa koy problem sa akong inlaws pero usahay dli jud nalikayan kay naai mga istorya nga m'abot niya,uyab man gud sa akong cuz ang iyang pag'umangkon.
I am lucky. I like my in-laws and they seem to like me. Sometimes, I even feel like I get along with them better that I do my own family. But my hubby has an aunt I just can't stand. She's a gossip-loving witch and I cannot tolerate being around her, so I try my best to avoid her.
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