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Originally Posted by
cp103
boss, no offense lang ha pero GROW UP wui,ka.toytoy pa nimo wui. sure ka you want to help her? or maybe it's yourself that you want to help? sorry if i'm asking such a question, i couldn't help but wonder man gud nga if your intention is to help her financially, you can help her even if dili nimo xa uyab, so why did you have to go and make her your gf if helping her financially rman gani imo intention. even if you say para pud dili na xa maguol pra maka.focus xa sa iya school,it won't still free you from the fact nga dili manhid ang girl, nga maka.feel jpun na xa sooner or later nga wala nakay feelings pra niya.
and another thing lang pud boss ha, if your truly such a wonderful and considerate guy. why didn't you consider the fact that sa imo g.buhat sa girl, your actually giving her a lot more reason to suffer during the time nga biyaan na nimo xa, take note, you did say to her nga makig.break naka when she graduates. why didn't you just ler her free pra at least dili pa au sakit dad.on.
and still another thing, if ganahan man jud gani ka sa girl, y man wala nlng ka ni.lie-low for a few months after breaking up w/ your gf, then imo dayun gpanguyaban ang girl. don't tell me balik na pud ka sa imo reason nga tungod you want to help the girl, please refer to #1 for my answer. if not, don't tell me nga ang reason nimo kay by the time nga nakig.balik sa imo gf kay mao pana ang time nga nagkaila mo sa girl, please remember the part where you said nga friends and girl ug imo gf, and that ka.berks mo, and that comfy ka niya, all those facts lead to the answer that you should have known the person for a long time nah.
and lastly, you can also know the person even if dili pa mo uyab, that is the reason why it is suggested that before you officially court a girl, you should try to spend time w/ the girl by going out and spending time together (i.e. dates). basically, by the time nga ma.uyab na nimo ang girl, you know mostly who she really is.
you know what boss, you better make your facts straight coz i can see that your not the person who you say you are. I'm not judging or anything, i'm just saying that you should consider other people's feelings before doing anything, not just your feelings and what you want to do.
peace...