blessed singleness or marriage is a call and destiny, What good is a marriage when for the rest of your marriage life is a nightmare? We are all entitled to exercise and enjoy our free will. And it's us who controls our destiny, we can ask someone to travel with us together along life's journey together until old age and death but take note that is "ask". So in the end we will have to do our part to have a partner in life not just really wait and sit.