HELP In Love with a Pregnant Girl

[Baeybe_Bryce]

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If ur not ready for commitment wga mo n lng patagalin pa...ur prolonging ur agony..and what if she falls for you ano na?aasa lang siya so better na maaga pa lng stop muna...be honest to ur self and wid her,..think ahead and be sincere pare...u might hurt her...

[makathy]

I was with a guy before who has a kid already with the previous girlfriend..I tried to accept him, and I really thought I could, but di jud malikayan na maghuna2 ko sa baby and the fact that I am one of the reasons why the baby cannot grow up with his natural set of parents..Di pod mawala sako huna2 that time na the connection between my boyfriend and his ex can never be cut off because of their baby..Eventually, I chose to let go..

OMG.. i'm going through the same situation right now.. but actually i think mine's more complicated than yours (he's separated w/ 2 kids).. i know how hard it really is to commit to this kind of relationship.. i've tried many times to leave.. but how can i leave someone who tells me 'i'm all he has'.. libog kaau oi..

i know how everyone says 'if you love the person, forget their past'.. but i tell you.. it's so HARD to forget when every time he visits his family (kids) my mind starts racing w/ 'what ifs'.. and i know that my family would never entirely accept this kind of relationship..

but in the end.. it's my decision.. i know it's hard to accept everything.. maybe it won't work out at all.. but at least i tried.. that's when i know that i really love a person when i learn to accept everything.. no matter how hard or painful.. (-_-,)

soul_captive is right.. being in this kind of unconventional relationship needs commitment.. understanding.. patience.. unselfishness, atbp. because believe me.. you will go through many kinds of emotions.. it will test what kind of person or character you have.. mski selos na sa ex or sa mga bata.. pa manhid manhid nlng jd.. hehehe..

[Soul_Captive]

If ur not ready for commitment wga mo n lng patagalin pa...ur prolonging ur agony..and what if she falls for you ano na?aasa lang siya so better na maaga pa lng stop muna...be honest to ur self and wid her,..think ahead and be sincere pare...u might hurt her...

This is what I was trying to say..Lisod man gud kay mg expect na unya xa naa ka pirme for her when in fact, you are still in doubt..Girls have a tendency raba to be dependent especially with her situation right now..it would be more painful for her kun naanad na xa naa ka for her then mukalit kag kawala later on..

[JSL]

m also in love with a pregnant woman coz my wife is pregnant hahaha

[Baeybe_Bryce]

pare believe me it won't work kung awa lang...and mind me telling you i got worse dan dat before pero ala ako feeling for d girl..she got hubby pa and got a son..kapitbahay ng tita ko..she's just 20 i think...but she's pretty and attractive..as in...but know wat wen i found out dat she got son...anu ka..di ko ya padayon...gud thing i did not take advantage sa pinapakita niya...so pare if u dont feel dat strong enough?don't make her depoend on you..she''s been hurt once and now she's paying for it na i think..so let's not hurt her again,ok bro?she did not deserve it if u will go wid her for awa lang..unfair un...but i will be in ur position?hell...i got to think really hard for dis...it doesn't just involve my love life!it's my future too!and if i know i can hurt her i will stop by dis moment let her know how i feel(be honest)and let her realize na "hindi matatama ng mali ung isa pang mali"!(oh id ba...sa movie un...hehehe)

but kidding aside,..in order for you to stand for her you must make sure first if ur fighting for something worth fighting for...di ung temporary lang...think of how you feel about her first..she doesn't deserve pity she needs love...

[Soul_Captive]

@ makathySo, you're still in it? It got me thinking..Maybe, I was not into it with that past relationship i had, coz if i was, then I would have stayed and taken it all up..

Other people do not really matter..Your family will accept if they see that it makes you happy..This should not be a reason for you to let go..But, if this bothers you, then it means you are not up to the fight..You are not willing to fight for him because you do not love him enough..

This kind of situation really is complicated, and it is up to the person to decide on the matter..Daghan considerations and things to think about, but if you are willing and able to stand up for it, then nothing can stop you..It's really just up to you..

[Baeybe_Bryce]

think bro,..for sure..everything will be fine if ngpapakatotoo ka lang...

[makathy]

@ makathySo, you're still in it? It got me thinking..Maybe, I was not into it with that past relationship i had, coz if i was, then I would have stayed and taken it all up..

yep.. one year and counting.. still tryin' to make it work.. let's just wait where this is all going to.. hehe.. but i'm just glad that i'm not alone in this kind of situation..

love.. it just makes things so complicated.. hehe..

[xidor]

humok kaayo nag ilong bayhana.. take advantage..bitaw ayaw oe
hahahahaha

[rdyteves]

bro preha ra mn guro ta situation nw... ako ako ex kay nanganak na jud den minyu pa jud cla... nahan p ko niya ug mura nahan p mn guro xa nko... nagka-buwag mi kay niskul mn ko dri cebu den mingawn mn daw xa nko... nadugay na-inluv mn xa sa iyang amigo pd. hambugero mn gud 2 tawhana gud... dghan kau suga iyang motor den naa p jud sounds na low, low, low... mao 2 buntis dayun xa a2. karn jud na day niad2 ko sa haus sa ako migo den silingan ra mn cla sa guy nag-labyug na ug duyan sa baby ako ex. ako naluoy niya. ang laki cge lng pa-chui2 sa iyang motor den mag-smoke p jud infront sa bby.. gsapot ko gatan-aw niya.