Grow up bai..mabaw kaayo imong reason (para lang sa imo ginikanan nga na pressure ka) mas maayo pa ipakita nimo nila nga matured lang ka nga nag-andam sa imo future & dili ka gusto madisappoint sila sa imo. probably the reason why your parents are pressuring you is that nakita nila nga medyo membro ka sa third *** & naglibog sila unsa jud imong gender. they fear the unkown bai. at 25, daghan paka angay agian oi. if naa nakay business karon & succesful naka then maybe that is one of the reasons nga gusto imong ginikanan nga magminyo naka...I agree with you saying that you are
self-centered & i would like to suggest that you add immature & stupid (sorry again). kanang kabuang nimo sa imong amiga bai, do you honestly think walay masakitan (you ,her, or your parents)? i would suggest to end it as soon as possible. para sad nga makamove-on ang babaye (for sure nadevelop na na sya nimo, bogo ray di kasabot ana)..Good Luck bai. (sorry if harsh ra kaayo, but sadly if imo pang parents imo kastorya karon, labaw pa ani imong madawat).
Growing up is not a matter of adding years to your age..you can be 40 yet still act like a 10 year old kid.
at 25 you should have matured already..just a thought...Good luck