Merged: All Love Stories

[kaytee]

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this is nice topic...it does really bring back old crazy memories...hehehe...

thanks... hehe

[spartz]

Good evening guys, before i share my story, i only ask that you respect me. Thanks.

naa ko'y gf and dugay nami pero wla cya dire kay ga trabaho sa gwas. at some point i met someone, and nagka fling mi but what started out as a fling turned out to be something more. long story short, we fell in love with each other. at that time, i was juggling between 2 gf's, let's call them GF1 (ang wala dire) and GF2(ang naa dire). GF1 was palayawyaw and sobra kamaldita to the point na wla na sa lugar most of the times. but GF1 was always the 1st priority. GF2 knew everything about GF1 but still she loved me. For the time na nagkakami ni GF2, i always reminded her that someday mawala jud ko. Pero at that point of my life, i am very happy with GF2, she will always be the girl that wanted me for being exactly who i am. I don't have anything to hide from her...in short, I can be myself when i am with her jud. With GF1, i always try to be the nicest person kay dali man cya ma irrate nako, and sometimes to the point na mura nko'g plastic sa iyaha. Take note, ingon ani nko with GF1 even before i met GF2. During our time with GF2, i felt so loved and cared for, at that time, i can really say that her world revolved around me. So, fast forward to present, GF2 had new friends na from her work, problem is sige sila ug inom. At first, okey ra nko, but mubadlong jud ko niya every now and then kay dili man ko ganahan anang sige ug inom jud. Until niabot ang time nagka problema si GF2 and bsan unsa on nko ug try ug tabang sa iyaha, it's obvious na dli ako ang makatabang niya. So obviously, galagot ko coz she told me that she needs time alone to think about her life. I asked her, what about it? She told me that for the past years that we've been together, she loved me more than anyone, but i kept on reminding her that she will never have me. She kept on reminding that to herself, to a point that she's already very ready to let go of me. So nagka problema cya, and i added to that problem by always asking her questions about us and this time i was already starting to doubt her guy friends. At that time, sige na iyang laag and dli na magsulti. Also, at that time, napuno nko sa style ni GF1, so i made the decision of leaving GF1, not because of GF2, but for myself. so going back with GF2, i started doing stupid things this time. i admit, i am a very jealous guy, super jealous jud and dali ra kau ko mu doubt ug mga things labi na dli ko sulti an. so, since i know where GF2 always hangs out, i followed her every night, in short, i started stalking her. I did this almost every night that she went out. Then sometimes, we talk for awhile before i go home. She always told me that she just needs time and promised me that she will be back. But stupid me could never wait. A lot of things changed when she had that problem, it seemed that we are getting farther with each passing day. At first, i blamed it on her friends for being too laagan, then to her for being so closed-minded as to not let me help her. then came a turning point in my stalking days that she had enough, she finally confronted me and told me that she was already scared of me, that she was way too choked by me, and she wants to decide for herself and not let me decide for herself. Then she left me. This was the only time that i realized that i was the main reason that we had a falling out. First thing that i realized was the reminder that she could never have me, she built her thoughts and heart on those words to the point that she was ready to let go. Second, i tried to control her, choked her to the point that she couldn't make any decisions without asking me first. At this point, it's quite obvious that i'm really in love with her. Sometimes, scary na akong pag love sa iyaha. I would admit, i've done things to her that i will never be proud of. Things that could be reason enough for her to not have me back. But guys, i really love her and i want her back. Right now, i don't think she feels anything for me anymore, although we see each other every now and then, but just for a cup of coffee nalang, and i think respetar nlng iyaha. Ako sad nga buangon, bag-o lng gani ko nag skandalo, sige ghapon ko ug ask sa iya if pwede bami magkabalik na. So everytime mu try ko ug talk about us, iya jud i turn down ang topic. All i know is that i love her so much and i just want to be with her. I already let her go, because thats what she wanted, considering what i've done, obvious man sad na makigbulag jud siya. But i am trying to win her back. Any comments, suggestions or help would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you guys for reading.

[ChaosOrb]

whew....it was a long read.

just a few advise.

1. respect yourself and respect GF2
2. Give yourself sometime alone, to think things through and during this time GF2 will have some time off with you (but don't stalk her again).
3. Ayaw sa mo pag.kita personally for a few months, but magparamdam ka nga naa ra gihapon ka.
4. Control your jealousy and learn to trust your partner.
5. If you agree to meet and talk back again. Don't win her back. Just talk, and work things through.

[spartz]

thanks bro, knang months jud? hehehehe

[monrose29]

lisuda gyud aning lagyo oi...

ako advice nimo bro... ayaw lang sa pugsa ang situation...taga-e sa og enough time c GF2 nga maka think and let her decide...and syempre dawata lang pod if unsa iyang decision...stay put lang sa anang coffee2x at least magkita gihapon mo duha...ipakita niya nga na usab naka... lisud ka ayo tambalan ang selos bro.. pero if imo lang gyud huna2x-on ang outcome sa imong pag cge og selos ma control ra na nimo...

[Egoist]

bitaw ana sila time heals everything, suwayi daw na basin epektibo hehehe

[gARN]

Ni sakit gyud akong mata ug binasa.. Whew! I respect u though.. Hehe.. Few comments on the story above:

1. GF2 can certainly relate to the thread "Meantime Girl" - by Kaytee..ú I consider her a "Meantime Girl" when she agreed to be w/u eventhough u constantly remind her of the limits of ur relationship (in short..MARTYR..yay!).. Too bad the thought of not having u for herself made her life a lil' (if not overly) complicated.. Tsk!

2. GF2's nyt out and drinking sprees w/ her friends made u realize how much she means to u.. how much u cared 4 her.. how much u are inlove w/ her.. and It cud have ended well for the both of u (..considering that u ended ur relationship w/ GF1), but ur pointless jealousy made it worst.. wrong move.. Toinks!

3. Now u're alone and feeling sorry.. persistently trying to win sum1 hu once loved and cared for u unconditionally.. sad =(

..My advice.. Stop being the man u turned out to be (..a fear-provoking jealous guy).. Be the man u once were (..a pleasant happy-go-lucky guy).. ahihi..ú

[maitoots]

1st off is respect your gf2 and respect yourself even more. give her some time and space if that is what is asked for kay dli na cya mangayo ug time and space if dli niya need. you are the cause of this problem so ikaw ra pd ang solution, for now ayaw lang una pakita.. for a few months.. this will also give her time to think.. the time she deserve. you have to pay ur price as well. lastly, karn nga naa pa cya problem, don't add up kay mka irritate jud na.. let her be herself, don't try to win her back and don't expect that things will be the same again after all your stupidity. instead, be a friend to her, learn to listen, let her talk and don't talk back... after time heals everything and she will accept you back in a romantic way, maybe kamo jud.. but if after everything she still don't want to accept you anymore, maybe.. just maybe.. things are never meant to be..
also learn how to control your jealousy and emotions.. it's all in the mind bro. it should be mind over matters of the heart and not the other way around. so the next you'd fall in love again, you have all these lessons na for you to guide..

[spartz]

Ni sakit gyud akong mata ug binasa.. Whew! I respect u though.. Hehe.. Few comments on the story above:

1. GF2 can certainly relate to the thread "Meantime Girl" - by Kaytee..ú I consider her a "Meantime Girl" when she agreed to be w/u eventhough u constantly remind her of the limits of ur relationship (in short..MARTYR..yay!).. Too bad the thought of not having u for herself made her life a lil' (if not overly) complicated.. Tsk!

2. GF2's nyt out and drinking sprees w/ her friends made u realize how much she means to u.. how much u cared 4 her.. how much u are inlove w/ her.. and It cud have ended well for the both of u (..considering that u ended ur relationship w/ GF1), but ur pointless jealousy made it worst.. wrong move.. Toinks!

3. Now u're alone and feeling sorry.. persistently trying to win sum1 hu once loved and cared for u unconditionally.. sad =(

..My advice.. Stop being the man u turned out to be (..a fear-provoking jealous guy).. Be the man u once were (..a pleasant happy-go-lucky guy).. ahihi..ú

wow thank you bro...u really made me see it in another angle

[m.garz]

bro ask lang ko, giunsa diay nimo pagskandalo si GF2? naa siyay lain o dala ra sa imong pagkaseloso?