mga pangutana sa girls tubagon sa guys. (waiting)

[dropdeadgorgeous]

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maybe he was waiting for further explanation from you back then, basta ingon ani na jud ang mga situtation mga past issues... naa na jud ni something wrong as in wrong ayaw lang pud ug lagot2 ug apil kai fire + fire = sunog! try to think about it! kamo 2 masakitan, atik rna ang i brought up kanang past pic, if u felt na nag jelly xa or mismo xa nag tell nag jelly xa hala romboha taman ginhawa! ayaw hunungi hangtod d mulagom hahaha

bitaw tinarong, talk about it when he start to get hot calma lang! anah lang

wow, thank you for this answer... i felt like this is really what's happening to us... i got mad during that time nga iya ko gidudahan coz he acted as if he doesnt really believe me... so ang ending, nag-away jud mi until now...

he is the type of guy nga dili xad kaau expressive diay... how will i make him express his feelings more? kanang mosulti xa nako if na offend na diay siya or nagselos na diay siya....

one more thing, i admit taas xad jud xa ug pride... i could feel nga ma-awkward xa mo-say ug sorry... dili siya ang type sa guy nga kung buwagan kai mangitag way aron maconvince ang girl nga dili lang magbuwag... his motto man gud is always "walai pugsanay.. kung dili nah, ahw dili nah" is there such thing? naanad man gud ko nga akong mga ex kai mag-effort jud to win me back... murag siya kai dili...

[miket07]

wow, thank you for this answer... i felt like this is really what's happening to us... i got mad during that time nga iya ko gidudahan coz he acted as if he doesnt really believe me... so ang ending, nag-away jud mi until now...

he is the type of guy nga dili xad kaau expressive diay... how will i make him express his feelings more? kanang mosulti xa nako if na offend na diay siya or nagselos na diay siya....

one more thing, i admit taas xad jud xa ug pride... i could feel nga ma-awkward xa mo-say ug sorry... dili siya ang type sa guy nga kung buwagan kai mangitag way aron maconvince ang girl nga dili lang magbuwag... his motto man gud is always "walai pugsanay.. kung dili nah, ahw dili nah" is there such thing? naanad man gud ko nga akong mga ex kai mag-effort jud to win me back... murag siya kai dili...

Naay tao ana nga mo ingon "walay pugsanay, kung dili nah, dili nah" pero tistingi beh if dili ba sakitan. Inig buwag tan-awon nato, kan-on na nila ila gisulti. naa rba sa katapusan ang pagbasol.

[monrose29]

naay tao ana nga mo ingon "walay pugsanay, kung dili nah, dili nah" pero tistingi beh if dili ba sakitan. Inig buwag tan-awon nato, kan-on na nila ila gisulti. naa rba sa katapusan ang pagbasol.

tumpak.. diha pod nimo ma measure iyang love nimo..if ang tawo buhaton na gyud gali niya ang beyond sa iyang limitation or deli na normal para niya.. then kana inlove gyud ka ayo na nimo..... proven na gyud nah....

ako lang sad ayaw lang pod palabi og pa gahi if he makes a move na mag balik mo.. and ayaw pod anang style nga humok ka ayo og ilong.. i mean if you think sincere sya then give him a fair game.. na-a ra ba uban girl nga bisan gi buhat na ang tanan sa laki to win her back kay pakipot gihapon and e take advantage ang situation.. i hope deli ka in ana.....

[ViperRKO]

how do you define a boring relationship? does that include having no s3x at all?


and what do you think about girls who chase guys? is it a plus?

U dont need 2 define a boring relationship. You can feel it. Everyone knows how boring feels. Der are a lot of ways 2 have fun besides ***. If a couple cant have fun without *** then they're downright BORING!

Girls who chase guys is a plus...even physically chasing...as in running after the guy. The girl that I really like did that to me and made me like her even more.

[storm]

ot: bag.o pako.. Mag observe pa ko.

[dropdeadgorgeous]

Naay tao ana nga mo ingon "walay pugsanay, kung dili nah, dili nah" pero tistingi beh if dili ba sakitan. Inig buwag tan-awon nato, kan-on na nila ila gisulti. naa rba sa katapusan ang pagbasol.

btaw sah? well i wanted to see if he would really want to stick to his principle nga "walay pugsanay, kung dili nah, dili nah"... but what if dili jud xa magmake ug effort to change my mind? does it mean, game over na jud?

tumpak.. diha pod nimo ma measure iyang love nimo..if ang tawo buhaton na gyud gali niya ang beyond sa iyang limitation or deli na normal para niya.. then kana inlove gyud ka ayo na nimo..... proven na gyud nah....

ako lang sad ayaw lang pod palabi og pa gahi if he makes a move na mag balik mo.. and ayaw pod anang style nga humok ka ayo og ilong.. i mean if you think sincere sya then give him a fair game.. na-a ra ba uban girl nga bisan gi buhat na ang tanan sa laki to win her back kay pakipot gihapon and e take advantage ang situation.. i hope deli ka in ana.....

thanks monrose! i sure appreciate this reply... nahurt jud qoe nga he didnt trust me as much as i trusted him... i'd sure love to see if he will go out from his shell and break that principle nga "walay pugsanay.." although, wala jud qoe ni-ingun niya nga cool off sah mi or buwag na mi coz hadlok sad qoe if mo-agree ra sad nya siya... basin game over na jud nya hinuon mi... don't worry, i'm not that kind of girl nga dili maka-appreciate sa efforts sa guy... im always fair when it comes to love...

[johnmarwel]

how will i make him express his feelings more? kanang mosulti xa nako if na offend na diay siya or nagselos na diay siya....

his motto man gud is always "walai pugsanay.. kung dili nah, ahw dili nah" is there such thing?

"how will i make him express his feelings more? kanang mosulti xa nako if na offend na diay siya or nagselos na diay siya...."

-I'm not expressive sad nga tao... I might be sharing some ideas here in Istorya but personally d jud ko expressive.. what I can advice is to let him feel that your not only a gf but also a friend.. Let him feel that he can share his opinions and ideas... Ask him if what his opinion on some matters para maanad cya nga mo share nmo...

" his motto man gud is always "walai pugsanay.. kung dili nah, ahw dili nah" is there such thing? "

-we have different motto in life... iyaha sad na nga motto... it means that he really stands on his words... but if he really needs to break that motto, you must let him understand why... depende lang sad lagi na kung kahibaw mo sabot... hehehe...

[monrose29]

lisud ra ba gyud nah mo stand ka sa imong motto....unya at the end awahi na imong pag mahay kay gi palabi nimo ang pride.....and to late nah deli namo ma balik ang time nga gusto unta nimo buhaton...

like..nagkabulag na gyud coz of that motto/pride....

@dropdead....

ikaw nalang pangita og way nga magka storya mo and tell him if asa sya iyahang motto or iyang inyong relationship/ikaw... lisud na ingon ana sis..kogn buwagan okay ra kong balikan okay ra pod.... murag ikaw gyud mo dala sa relationship ana nga situation which is deli healthy coz ang relationship dapat kamong duha ang mo decision..

[monrose29]

how do you define a boring relationship? does that include having no s3x at all?


and what do you think about girls who chase guys? is it a plus?

boring relationship kanang mao ra inyong routine permi... e hatod ka sa imong bf sa work.. inig hapon kuha-on napod ka...txt2x... di ka puyde mo la-ag kong deli mo sugot imong bf/gf.. kong asa ka na-a permi imong bf/gf... kada lingi nimo na-a imong bf/gf halos tanan nimong buhaton ipa hibaw ni bf/gf ultimo pag utot.......

unya wala nakoy room sa imong self.. wala nakay time to explore the other things kay focus ra ka ayo mo ninyong duha...... unya kong mag away mo palaban mo sa inyo tagsa2x ka friend kong mag uli kalimtan napod ang mga friend kay lagi na-ay mga selos2x and blah blah blah....

[dropdeadgorgeous]

what I can advice is to let him feel that your not only a gf but also a friend.. Let him feel that he can share his opinions and ideas... Ask him if what his opinion on some matters para maanad cya nga mo share nmo...

wow, thanks sa advise.. dili sa pagpanghambug bah, but i think i have played both roles to him.. a friend and a gf... i mean, he tells me anything under the sun man gani.. its just that, he doesn't really express much when it comes to our relationship... like personally, he can't! but sa text, he can.. so i think its really his pride which is holding him back...

-we have different motto in life... iyaha sad na nga motto... it means that he really stands on his words... but if he really needs to break that motto, you must let him understand why... depende lang sad lagi na kung kahibaw mo sabot... hehehe...

i haven't talked to him yet to give him some space to think... coz i was also offended about the loyalty/trust issue... i hope nga with this space i gave him, he would be able to realize that he just have to trust me as much as i trust him...

lisud ra ba gyud nah mo stand ka sa imong motto....unya at the end awahi na imong pag mahay kay gi palabi nimo ang pride.....and to late nah deli namo ma balik ang time nga gusto unta nimo buhaton...

like..nagkabulag na gyud coz of that motto/pride....

@dropdead....

ikaw nalang pangita og way nga magka storya mo and tell him if asa sya iyahang motto or iyang inyong relationship/ikaw... lisud na ingon ana sis..kogn buwagan okay ra kong balikan okay ra pod.... murag ikaw gyud mo dala sa relationship ana nga situation which is deli healthy coz ang relationship dapat kamong duha ang mo decision..

lisud jud... kai pride akong kontra! sad thing is, i think ako jud ang nagdala sa imung relationship most of the time... i appreciate those times when he decides for us, but i can really feel nga his pride is holding him back... and i think the reason why im airing all these out is because at some point, i just want him to drop that pride, even for once! hahaha