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[MyMaria]

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guys, wat wud u do f ur x gets bak to u and wala siyay klaro f makig commit ba siya or dili..but you date and he always communicate with you..wala lang jud siyay clear na intention if makig commit ba siya ug balik..

i'm not quite sure i get the idea of "makigbalik but dili makig commit" part... ummm, what do you mean makigbalik? like he just wants to be with you, hang out, and what have you? well, it looks to me like he wants the casual dating rather than a relationship... that is pretty clear... applepie, still it's you who can decide whether you want to keep at it, or you want to get out of it... but always keep in mind... do what makes you happy but think twice... after all, you have to face the consequences yourself

although you stated not what bothers you.. are you confused between getting involved or not to get involved? my advise, if you know how to play your cards right you'll be fine (that is you won't be hurt) but if you let yourself get lost in the game, you know tears will fall... sad but true.

i wish u luck!

[diem]

guys, wat wud u do f ur x gets bak to u and wala siyay klaro f makig commit ba siya or dili..but you date and he always communicate with you..wala lang jud siyay clear na intention if makig commit ba siya ug balik..

@applepie, MyMaria has raised valid points but I would like to ask how long have you and your ex-boyfriend been going on these dates again? A week? A month? More that that?

If its been only a month still since you and him sort of 'got-back' together, perhaps he does have intentions of getting back with you but still is 'testing the waters', seeing if you and him could make it work now considering the first time it didn't work at all. Please give him time to consider it carefully.

If its been more than a month, almost stretching into a year and he's also seeing other young ladies casually then you should re-evaluate your relationship. MyMaria is correct in saying that its most likely he just enjoys your company, that since you and him had a history together, you know him well and maybe he sees you as a very close friend who understands and appreciates him.

If that's the case, and its bothering you to no end then by all means set boundaries. If he's seeings others, why not you? You have a life too or you have the ability of making excuses, you don't have to go on every date he invites you unless YOU really want to be with him.

If you feel that getting back with your ex-boyfriend is something you really want and you're hoping that love would sweeter and more true the second time around, then do something about it For further tips and pointers on what to do, I suggest you PM MyMaria (Yes I am serious, I'm not kidding).

I hope your heart will lead you to happiness. Wishing you all the best in Life and Love!

[jugs_06]

guys, wat wud u do f ur x gets bak to u and wala siyay klaro f makig commit ba siya or dili..but you date and he always communicate with you..wala lang jud siyay clear na intention if makig commit ba siya ug balik..

long hibernation in this thread and a little bit of heart break makes me want to post again.. grrrrr don't mind me..

nwei, i'll give you one quick fact and i hope women (yes i'm serious, this goes out to women) would realize this.. that not ALL men are the same.. your ex wants to come back to you but doesn't want something like a deep commitment of some sort, now that's tough on your part i know, but have you come to realize that it's TOUGHER ON HIS part too?

here's the deal, the "commitment" part is something that is clearly visible to women.. women see it as a long-term goal, whereas men don't think about it that much especially in the early parts of the relationship..

so.. this leads me to this question------> how long have you been dating that guy? is he also dating someone else? do you think he's plain serious on pursuing you back?

if you feel that the relationship is worth keeping, then it's also worth keeping him back and understand his side too..

goodluck..

[amamice]

Love is not a game, it is doing something that will make you happy, mad, crazy, cry and even doing things that you usually didn't do.

[r0mm3L]

hi ppl

i have a friend we've been so close for 5 months already, but 1 year nami kaila, nagkaclose lang mi pag ayo for 5 months for the past 5 months. but im not considering her as my bestfriend gyud, bcoz being a best friend tanan man secrets e share man niya nako and vice versa. kami we're always talking about career and ambitions in life, all about our job. there was the time nga ako gi sya gi tabangan in preparetions sa iyang mga exams nga gi take, ako sya gi tabangan, i always der for her gyud, everytime she calls me. then always sad sya invite nako for hang out, ad2 ug bars, jogging, etc. until such time i realize i like her.

shes about to leave cebu 2night. shes going home but she'll be back next year. i was planning to express my feelings b4 she go....its either i'll visit her at the boarding house or if im late, apason nako sya sa pier. i have to tell her no matter what. if i fail to tell her mag huwat pakog 1 month, i don't want to celebrate christmas without a peace in mind .

i was wondering if makalitan ba ni sya if now nako e sulti. so when am gonna tell her. now? or next year?

please advice.....thanks

if ma busted, gilang anad nako ana

Best Regard,

rommel

[r0mm3L]

3 hours nalang, mo ad2 na sya

[monrose29]

bai rommel,

ayaw na pa abot og next month bai, sulti na karon dayon, nahhh sa imo na gika-ingon basin mag celebrate kag pasko without a peace of mind..... call her sa iyaong phone.. or if pede apasa ddto sa peir, go go go go go.....

[monrose29]

3 hours nalang, mo ad2 na sya

waaaaaaaaaaaa basin mag mahay ka....... tawagi dayon....

[r0mm3L]

mo ad2 kos ilaha

[sheka]

@romm3l


we have a similar situation but with differences....

my current boyfriend soon to be ex (hehehe naa diay ni) anywy seriously. it happened to me last november.. we were close, always together, eat together, It's like our day is not complete if we dont see each other...

i Was blinded at first. i was in a state of denial that i like him though i can already feel it...later in sept., he became colder i dont know why, i was just confused what really happened. a week before semestral break, he became extra extra extra extra super extra sweet... that made me confused.. i was thinking something was really wrong... before i went hoome in surigao. he asked for a date. (lipay intawn ko) because at that time i know i had strong feelings already... he just keep on telling me that i should wait and other weird lines from him...

when school began last novr, i just learned from his friends(also my friends) that he is leaving for US....I was really SHATTERED! it was so sudden. that time i realized everything... i was so mad. and when we met i just shouted and hugged him.... that time he told me everything.. feelings, etc.. mga chuvaness...

everything was in a rush.... mura mi gi gukod. where in fact we had all the time if he were not a coward... we were happy but i felt empty though because it was a short time....

i dont know if long distance relationship works.... right now, we dont have commitment..... we have a mutual feeling man. we'll see lang... if he finds another.. then shoot! fine with me...

so ikaw ayaw padugay2x oki?