Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

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ECHOES OF THE HEART

"Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes to our hearts.
We all fall in love and there are times when we love so much
that we lose ourselves in our own emotions. More often than not
we wonder why they are love that grows and love that grows cold.

We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong.
But in the end we find ourselves, where we started for we cannot question
love when it has its own reasons. Love will always be as it always has been ..
silent, mysterious and deeply profound.

Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never dies,
only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty,
and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be
fulfilled. But love is only a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands
for we may never find the strength to let it go when it decides to leave.
We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it last
and then freely open our arms when its time to say good bye.

When we fall in love with someone, we dont want that feeling to end for it is
everything we are, everything that we wanted to be. We pray that
love will stay and grow in our hearts. But, if it doesn't then we should
never let our lives be taken by it, for life should not end where heartaches
begin.

There is always a reason why we have to move on. When we have to say
goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever, let us not wave
our hands with a heavy heart. For love will have to set it wings
free and find the place where it belongs. We may have lost
it but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the eachoes
of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.
Then we'll know that it has never left us, for the good that we
have become because of love will always stay. It will always
be there reminding us that we should be thankful and happy, not
because we have lost love, but because, for once in our
lives, that feeling lived in our hearts and made us happy"

[monmon]

[QUOTE=ilovepooh;3000619]...guys pls give your advises...

After more than 5 years of being together, the relationship just ended a week ago. How do you guys move on from a long term relationship?[/QUOTE



flirting.... flirting ra jd tambal ana para kalimot daun....

[jorfy_cbu]

horse in red will sometiimes help,... but not always.

[emperadorse28]

pag dula OL games... hehehe

[kharan]

A question nga wala gyud makatubag ug klaro. Walay ideal or effective steps to follow.

[zney25]

acceptance.....thats what i did....and give time to myself.....char!...nyahahhahhaa

[theused]

At some point in your life, you will have to deal with loss. Your loss could be a personal one, such as the death of a spouse or the end of a relationship. Or, your loss could be on a much grander scale, like the grief that our country, and the entire international community, felt for the victims of the September 11th terrorist attacks. The finality of events such as the death of a loved one, the end of a loving partnership or the violence and hatred displayed on that fateful day can leave us stunned and in despair. How do you move on from grief? Read on for some ways to help put the past behind you and come to terms with your loss, and take our quiz to find out if you’re depressed…

The 5 Stages of Grief
Dr. Elisabeth Kübler, a Swiss psychiatrist, first described the Five Stages of Grief in 1969 to explain the emotions that a person dealing with grief may experience. Many people have interpreted this incorrectly, thinking that everyone experiences all five of these stages, in order. But nowhere does it say you’ll experience them all, or go from one stage to the next. Some people start with “depression” and then jump into “anger” and may never get to “acceptance.” More likely than not, if you’re experiencing a very tragic loss, you will face one or all of these emotions head-on:

1. Denial – Refusing to believe what has happened, feeling shocked. “This can’t be happening.”
2. Anger – Accusing others, such as a supreme being or friends, for what has occurred. “How dare you let this happen!”

3. Bargaining – Asking the universe or a supreme being to “cut a deal” with you. “Just let me live to see my daughter get married.”

4. Depression – Experiencing listlessness or exhaustion combined with feelings of helplessness, guilt and lack of interest in life. “I might as well give up.”

5. Acceptance – Facing the loss and moving on, returning to setting goals in your life and focusing your energy more positively. “I’m ready to deal with this now.”

[Soul_Captive]

Am wondering at which stage could I be in now...

[theused]

^ depende unsay mga usual questions that would pop on your mind...

[pbaaddict]

time ra jud girl...and think positive there's a Guy prepared for u...just learn ur lessons well and move on...(-;