Did I Marry the Right Person?

[atch_atch]

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yes,i married the right one..he's a bestfriend,and that counts...
attraction soon will fade,but friendship and commitment doesn't...
being a responsible married person is a challenge,but taking one day at a time is the trick...
i speak up when i have troubled mind,he listens..and vice versa

[sandra]

LytSlpr, i agree with you. The key word in marriage is sacrife. But now that im separated with my husband, i realized that even if you do everything to save the marriage, it would still fail if the other person is not pulling his weight in the relationship. This is what happened between me and my husband. While i tried everything (magpaubos, beg, etc), siya nagsalig 'coz he knows i'll be there. And that i have no guts to leave. How many times nako niya gi-threaten that he will leave and i always beg him to stay? My God, i lost my self-respect along the way! But guess what, no matter how much you love the person, you also get tired. You will reach your breaking point. So i told him i need space pud.

yes dear i do agree with you... my relationship with my hubby now is shaky... shaky to the point nga i fall for another and that i fell out of love... well, there is actually no concrete mathematical solution so as to solve your relationship be it subtraction, multiplication of what. it just happened nga it happened. though how much we sometimes try to work it out still if the case is you fall out of love na, then it's useless.

[cindy]

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[cindy]

yes dear i do agree with you... my relationship with my hubby now is shaky... shaky to the point nga i fall for another and that i fell out of love... well, there is actually no concrete mathematical solution so as to solve your relationship be it subtraction, multiplication of what. it just happened nga it happened. though how much we sometimes try to work it out still if the case is you fall out of love na, then it's useless.

yes that's true i asomtimes watch my hubby sleeping i always thought that is it still love that we are holdong on? well, i dont think so. i sobs and thinkng that i should'nt marry early,i shouldnt have gave birth, i should have listen to my mom. for all we know as far as we go, mapul-an pd ta oi basta ma usab ang tanan kung ako goal ky mga bata nalang.walay lingaw, walay excitement............boring au mao na uban babe maka hun2 magabit ha ha ha

[din428]

hala ana jud na,, does it mean that the "they live happily ever after" is not true at all?

im still single and wanting to settle down,, yet the topic you've been talking about is the very thing that scares me....

cguro nga i really need to slow down,, and let time take its place.....

[IT]

oh man,,,, ola i miss u

[mariox]

[GYM]

nice topic so i will share next time not now kay no enuf time to read pa man gud.....

[hermie]

simple question, yes if you love him or her 100% why not and that the right person that your looking for,,

[din428]

before i kinda rush things, i want to settle down, cguro narin gusto ko mogawas sa amo house but now that im living in my own, im enjoying my life as a single but there are times when i feel heavy mangita bya pud ko ug karamay.... the need if being taken care of(kc im living on my own here in hte city), but ryt now im not sure if marraige will meet this need,, kasi sa ako nabasa sa inyo mga post,its seems like dili tubag ang pag minyo....

im still 24,many pipol said na its the marrying age daw, there are times na mura ko ma-preasure kasi gusto npd ko mg settle down... but i changed my mind... heheheh!!!! mg paka enjoy sa ko as a single patuyang sa ug laag,go to places ive never been,,