pro live-in or anti live-in?

[catzukie88]

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live in para makita ang katag.. samot na sa batasan...

[neversaydie]

living togethe prior to marriage can be applicable to those who are willing to, it's from both parthers decision. If they do not end up to marriage then they may not meant to be, anhi naman makita tanan nimu batasan, and when you decide to separate dili na mo go through leagl processes unless naa jud dakong bikil... if it involes with a child, for me dili man siguro madisoriented sa family kunf both of you will still show and give what the child needs specially the love and attention he needs.. quality time, and management lang, kung modako na sya he will understand. dili lang jud paki ton ug bati ang bata, both jud be responsible gyud, dili lang magthink sa kaugalingon labi kung nanay anak.

If you decide to get married before building your family is really ideal, however there are people who ended up separation kay wala na nagsinabot.. pero lisud na kay mag invlove na ug legalities. there are people na agwanta nalang kay lage minyo man, wala nay mahimo.. pero i just hope na this will not happen, of course dili tanan nahitaboan ani, specially kung you both understand and responsible. it should be give and take always..

naay dugay na nag live in, pero the're happy.. .
mas maayo ug happy tanan which ever choice you made in your life.. and ready to face consequences..

[abulang]

@vanillaskies :

kalain ra anang dawaton nlang na nmo iya kinaworsan (sag nangabit??), murag yes nlang kay minyo nman? u have to be together for the sake sa mga kids? stereotype pa japon. depende rman na sa mindset sa person..if ur realistic and practical, go for it (live-in samo)..if ur moralistic, that's fine..

[abulang]

depende nanis sabot

mao sad hahah

[superidol]

pro liv in q . .

[cebu.opportunities]

okay ra siguro basta way hilabtanay. I just can't see myself living in one roof sa bf unya kami ra jud duha. siguro in time okay ra given respetaray lang, pag control2 lang sa agib.

naa mn sad hinuon ways makahibaw ka sa kinaiya sa usa ka taw bisan di mo mag-usa og "room". maybe one roof pero different rooms.

[j0dz]

pro live in. mayna arong makita ang true colors before marriage. lisod na rong panahona.

[lejean]

Even before I have no qualms about those people who are living together prior marriage...

Based on experience, mas better jud nag live in mo para you will know if mo click ba or dili anha man gud makit-an tanan ang strengths and weaknesses sa moha partner, if maka adjust ba mo sa usag usa or worth it ba ipadayun ang inyoha relationship to the next level which is marriage. Kay sus mahal baya magpa-annul kesa mgpakasal...

Mas better jud to live in la jud anak para you gonna build a strong foundation, be yourself and inyoha focus is on the relationship, on your partnership, etc. kay if naa anak complicated naman gud ang situation... mura ra pud na mga minyo nagminyo kay nabuntis or ngstay sa kaminyoon for the sake sa anak.

Regarding morality issue? Kinsa man dire 100% perfect who has been morally upright? Wala man dba? As long as both of you consented na ingon ana inyoha sudlan, walay nasakitan, and you both are happy why not? We just live once, might as well live life without any regrets and be happy! Not waste it to be in misery and not find happiness.

[KlaytoN]

I'm against co-habitation even though i did it for at least 5 years with my present wife. There were several factors why we decided to live-in. We were true to our commitment no matter what the cost and what others had portrayed us as "living in sin." I was not that affected personally coz i became an atheist. Wala na koy pakialam unsay ikasulti sa akong family and relatives. Besides, nung time nga nag live in mi for 5 yrs, i didn't ask any form of assistance from my parents not even a single centavo. Pakamatyan nako amo relationship if needed and i was ready for that. But still i don't want this to happen to my future kids.

I met my GF in December 2003. We started to live in sometime in 2007. In 2011 she left for work abroad. We got married this year and plan to have children next year.

We survived the test of time.

[MrKrabbs]

pro ako ani pero sa katong wala pa kasuway ambot lng kaha og maka agwanta ba mo.... saon nalng