Originally Posted by
yiennahs
what you mean is IQ,
to improve your IQ then you have to start reading, studying, learning
watch movies,
read books,
surf,
be curious
experiment
there are many ways to learn you just have to keep digging and digging instead of just settling for mediocrity
if you are still a student, you have to borrow books from the library so that as you level up you can adjust yourself from books
it all starts with simple books: fiction
then you it becomes thicker
then more comprehensive
i started from michelle, sweet valley to nancy drew and sweet valley high to inspirational books, then non fiction then history books, joke book,s a lot of IQ books, and you have to read everyday, you have to set time on reading. Make sure you like what you read so that you can retain it. In college, you'll end up settling for books of your course and if you are not fund of reading, you will end up sleeping. Yeah. The fonts are so small, not enough illustrations and some books are so hard to understand. One example is Black's Medsurge.... tsk tsk
People nowadays are on the net so the tendency is they wasted too much time on stupid and unimportant things.
Passion is always the key to a better learning.
If you want to learn then study.
If you don't want to study then stop dreaming on becoming intelligent.
and another thing, what is IQ if your EQ is very low....
attitude, personality, character.. IQ and EQ together defines who you are.
I agree with you sis and I highlighted/colored the phrase that really made sense.....Most parents and teaching institutions strive hard to better their child's IQ and yet unknowingly disregarded the
Emotional
Quotient of the child of which by the way is the defining factor of how a person SURVIVES the harshness of life.As what Nitwit mentioned in her post above that a lot of intelligent (academic wise) persons ended up as a mediocre while some of their counterparts achieved the highest stalls in society.
I believe that EQ specially at the early stages of life should never be hampered or disregarded during the process of improving a person's IQ.
I'll site a common example of what I'm talking about here:
A mother wants her child to have good grades in school
(elementary) and thus she provides the child will all his material needs helps him with his lessons.
But when the child unfortunately FAILS....
Wham....kasaba didto kasaba diri,
without ever explaining to the child what were the REAL reasons why she (mother) got irritated......The child
(innocent as he is) thinks that he got scolded simply because he got a failing grade..So his immediate course of action is to study hard
(and cheat harder) for the simple and
lame reasons of having good grades and to impress her mother.....He will never realize that the real purpose of studying in the early years school life is to prepare him for an even harder lessons later not only in the academe BUT also in the realities of everyday living..Then later on as the child grows up he now
subconsciously see every FAILURE as something to be feared or a thing with an absolute absence of rewards, which of course is the exact opposite.
(I don't have to elaborate that every Failure can be converted into a Blessing if you have a strong EQ) Why do you think that most Positive thinkers excel than Pessimists? They endure...They don't get discouraged...They stand up with a smile when they fall.
And so my suggestion on how to improve the quality of our intelligence is to do the things that most of you guys suggested above
(all of them are good wlay labot tong mga bugal2x) BUT do those things in par with improving your
Emotional
Quotient