is she really worth it?

[Saickiek]

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2 years kapin nami ani nga girl (my 2nd gf), at first i thought she was really an ideal girl ky NBSB, dili party girl, dili igat, walay bisyo, buotan and career-oriented, etc. but then i was wrong

i had someone before her, my first gf, and then the story goes..

sige ra sya ask if kinsa ba daw mas love nako, akoang 1st or siya.. of course mutug-an pud kos tinuod nga siya jud, but despite sa ako answer, magsige ra gihapon sya patutsada ug istorya (mental/emotional/verbal abuse) nga wala diri wala didto tungod ra sa selos.

kani nga pagselos niya is grabe kaayo, dili normal, dili jud sya moundang ug away sa ako until maghilak na jud ko ug mu beg sa iya ug sorry (ako na ang giaway ako pa jud ang mu sorry )

it has come to a point nga naka affect na sya sa akong studies ug sa career, i come to class and work unprepared kay the night before ga sige rako hilak ug beg sa iyaha kay halos everyday sya magselos sa akoang 1st gf ug halos everyday mi mag away tungod ana.

and then it went on for 2 years until wala na jud ko ka agwanta, i broke up with her last Nov.12 kay dili na nako ma take iyang batasan.

but prior to this, she was asking me if she was my first sa bed, mutubag lang ko ug yes bisan dili tinuod.. ako nabuhat nga i hide kay hadlok kaayo ko nga iya ko biyaan tungod sa iyang pagka selosa. i lied para lang ma save among relationship.

and now she is blaming me for all of this, matod pa niya: "kung imo lang unta gisulti sa akoa ang truth sa sugod pa, dili unta ko magselos ug inato kagrabe nga naka apektar jud sa imong life. you're all to blame for this"

mu agree mo sa iyaha?

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another thing, after sa break-up namo, she was begging me nga magbalik mi, ako pud nga understanding, ako pud gitagaan chance, kay love man jud nako sya, with one condition: dapat sya mu apologize sa ako parents ug sister kay nakabalo man sila ug pwerte nila sukoa and they were telling me to give up on her na.. but despite of that, mao ni mga nahitabo:

1) after the break-up, i never saw her face para makita nako ang iya sincerity (LDR man mi, but we live just 4 hours apart by bus) pero wala jud sya ni make ug effort nga magkita mi magka istorya. murag balewala ra sa iya ang tanan. dili gani nimo ma feel iyang sincerity?
2) nitext sya sa akoa mom after almost 2 months na nilabay, bahaw na kaayo and it was not even to make amends pero nag byebye na sya (which is dili pareha sa iyang gipromise nga makigbalik sya)
3) she was meeting and texting one particular guy during the time nga makigbalik sya nako.. sige pa sya send nako ug sweet nothings ug mga iloveyou msgs adto nga time and then all the while she was seeing this guy.
4) days pa lang after our break-up, halos tanan family sa guy iya gi add sa iyang facebook, and i later learned nga this guy was calling her kato nga time nga we were still "technically ON" trying to solve our problem.

and then she told me why she didn't want to exert effort, she said "kontra naman gud imong family sa akoa, mao dili nalang ko mamugos nila, kapoy na"..

bisan all the while ako gisulti sa iya nga all she needs to do is talk to my parents nand dako kaayo chance nga magbalik mi kay gahulat ra pud ako mother ug sincere nga sorry gikan sa iyaha, PERO WALA JUD.

is she really worth it after all?

woow! grabeh istoryaa bro ohy! kung nahan jud cya makigbalik nimu iya jud nang ipakita na ganahan jud cya. pasagdae nana cya.haha dghan pa chikas.xD

[cesski]

nagpa gukod rana bro. she likes the ego boosts from you crying and gukod2. believe me kay hilig sad ko pagukod sa una. move on to the next one. immature ra kaayo na nga girl.

[Monmyhand]

hmmm... unsa bay 4 hours away from dumaguete? bacolod noh? ilongga gali ang gf mo noy? hehehe...

bitaw skullyboy.. minaw sa tambag nila. she is not worth it.

ikaw to naghilak sa blvd bro? looy.. kabalo pa ko nga ikaw, palitan unta tika ug tempura hehe..

naa pa man daghan diha bro.. she is history for you now.. let ur salty tears remind you that.

[skullyboy]

hmmm... unsa bay 4 hours away from dumaguete? bacolod noh? ilongga gali ang gf mo noy? hehehe...

bitaw skullyboy.. minaw sa tambag nila. she is not worth it.

ikaw to naghilak sa blvd bro? looy.. kabalo pa ko nga ikaw, palitan unta tika ug tempura hehe..

naa pa man daghan diha bro.. she is history for you now.. let ur salty tears remind you that.

bisdak sya bro, hehehe.. mao jud, nindot kaayo ang feeling nga tanan nagpost ani nga thread nag validate jud sa akong nafeel sa iyaha.. i thought man gud nga i was just too harsh for her, pero dili diay jud.. she really deserves it.. thanks

nagpa gukod rana bro. she likes the ego boosts from you crying and gukod2. believe me kay hilig sad ko pagukod sa una. move on to the next one. immature ra kaayo na nga girl.

ga ego-tripping ra jud sya sukad.. pait sad kay ako iyang gigamit to feed her psychological problems.. thanks bro

woow! grabeh istoryaa bro ohy! kung nahan jud cya makigbalik nimu iya jud nang ipakita na ganahan jud cya. pasagdae nana cya.haha dghan pa chikas.xD

dili nako i prioritize ang tawo nga only considers me as an option.. wala jud sya worth as a lover in my case.. thanks bro

[cesski]

no probs.. sis diay ko. hehe anyway, it's good that you left her. ego boost sad na niya na duha ang ga-entertain niya..

[tazzapril]

wow brad, , ,as in ikaw pai ask sorry bsag xa nkasala? aguy. . . . kana plang klaro nah keo na nga inlab keo kah nya, , ,unya wa jud na nya mkita, , ,cgeh pah xa duda, , ,hala, , ,

sakto rjud imo nah xa g let go brad

reserve ur love para sah nxt grl moh avot sah imong lyp, ,

[Blackjellybean27]

No, definitely not worth it. uggggh! makasapot na kind of woman... that's evil brewing inside a seemingly innocent woman.. as if innocented. LOL. don't be fooled by the NBSB thing. hehe

[sHenZee03]

Save some love for yourself too. We all deserve to be loved, not just others, but also by ourselves.

[d!orj]

she's not worth it jud,,y iya paman utingkayon ang past,, na past is past naman dapat mu dawat nlng xa,,payts rsad nah imu nah xa gi give up uie,,grabe nyah uie wah jud nyah makita nah love au nimu xa??she's so selfish,,,tsk,, move on,,concentrate nlng sah sa u life,,and bilog ang mundo,,makakita rakag girl na worth jud for you,, in time,, smile and dont waste ur tears to that girl,,

[EightEqualsD]

grabe pd anang muhilak pd permi tungod nagselos ang babae tsk tsk tsk
bati man foundation inyu relationship ky way trust
unhealthy inyu relationship ky na apektuhan man kaha imu career ug school
definitely not worth it
ang sakto na relationship ky you both bring out the best of each other not the worst in them