Haaay Badtrip!

[charmedlexa]

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you know what... sa sige nimo huna2x sa problem with your bf - you forgot your baby who is inside you, and we know nga babies could also feel their mothers' desperation, anxiety, stress etc and could possibly get affected in a very bad way

since di man nimo mauna imo self kaysa imo bf kay lagi tawgon ka ug selfish and kay love nimo siya - pero how about imo baby? unsay itawag niya sa imo? pabaya? di nimo siya love?

so advice nako unaha imo baby kaysa ni bisan kinsa - imo gani bf unahon permi iya kids so buhata the same, basin kana man lang masabot niya kay mao sad iya gihimo

[Blackjellybean27]

Thanks guys...

i've already resolved to stop being too accommodating and understanding towards him, 'cause if i allow this to happen all the time, i'll just spend those days crying and i know i'm not being a very good mother to my baby if i continue doing that...
(hahay, i know this is easy to say but hard to do.. but i will certainly do my best...)

i don't understand why you guys understand what i am going through but he doesnt...
but if i try to understand nalng all the time, ako pod ang kawawa...

[monrose29]

lisud gyud kaau ni imong situation girl. parehas mo nga naay baggage, ang i can tell nga ang inyong trials will not end here. u came from failed relationships and maybe u r trying very hard nga kaning inyo mo work out, i dont know if that's the case. based on my personal experience, nag buwag mi sa ako exhubby and when i met my bf (then), exbf na now, i was trying to show my exhubby and everyone that i picked the right guy even if the truth is, i am aware that he is not that perfect, not even close. kahibalo ko nga daghan siya flaws and complications. pero kani laging, gusto nato i prove sa tanan nga malipayon ta ug sakto ang atong desisyon sa pag pili aning tawhana, atong tunlon tanan, atong agwantahon tanan, ug atong itago ang tanan kung puede pa lang. sa akong case, dili ko gusto kataw an sa akong ex husband nga sayup gihapon nga lalaki ang akong napunit after niya. i wanted to ask u, are u in this situation too? kay ako, it took me 6 long years, before nako na convince akong kaugalingon nga wala gyud koy mahimo, sayup dyud na taw ang akong napunit. i did all my best, just like what u r giving in your relationship, but mo abot ra gyud ang time nga kapoyon ka ug mo give up ka. when that time comes, dili naka mo care ug unsa pay isulti sa mga taw. just like u, i have a baby sa akong bf of 6 years, pero eventually nagbuwag ra gyud mi. karon, im moving on with my life and i learned so many lessons. dili gyud ma tunhay ang usa ka complikadong relasyon daan no matter how big our love and sacrifices are. u dont deserve all the sufferings u have right now, ug ikaw ra sad ang maka end ana. i know u r so inlove with ur bf, i was too, i am still inlove with the guy until now, but i also love myself, i have forgotten to love myself more for several years, i guess thats my greatest mistake. karon, i have more reasons to be happy even if i dont have someone special, at least my life is peaceful and not as complicated. u have to make the choice girl.

tumpak.... i realize something sa imong post sis.. thanks for this....

[rr_sipat]

Kalooy pud nimo oi, dili baya lalim ang magmabdos ug bata!

[hanamari]

think of ur baby sis. be strong para niya. do what you think is best for you and for your baby.

you made ur sacrifices for him. enough is enough.

think of ur baby lng jud kai for sure ig.gawas ana dli na ang laki imu eprioritize, imung baby na.

[tauren_chieftain]

relax...
take a deep breathe...
think...

thats it........

[tenzor73p]

awts luoya pd nimu oi considering ur pregnant ngita nlng lain room hehe

[yvonne6]

gurl, its not yet the end of the world. dont be scared to move on. naay mga taw diri nga naka ila nako and i am a very transparent person. i dont hide the truth from anyone. dili lang ikaw ang naka experience ug ingon ana, dili lang ikaw ang naka experience ug failed relationships ug masakitan, daghan ta. but then, kung dili ka mo get out from the pit u r currently in, im afraid u will embrace it completely. what i mean is, maanad unya ka nga i treat lang ka badly sa usa ka taw. its scarry. i had failed relationships too. i've had kids from those relationships but its not all ugly. right now, something great is happening into my life. thats after i decided to get out of a failing, dysfunctional relationship. i am hoping u will have the courage to make a difference in your life too. i may have lost or missed this chance if i continuously told myself that i will stand by my man no matter what. i realized one thing too, our happiness will not come from another person, its us who will bring that to ourselves...put an end to your misery. i know u will just do fine being pregnant maski wala na ang imong bf. trust me, if u decide to stick with him, everything will not end here...i've been observing your threads, from time to time, u have issues with ur bf. kapoy diba? there will be men who will take u and ur kid/s no matter what and will do everything to make u very happy. ayaw huna hunaa nga tungod gikan ka sa failed marriage and failed relationships, wala nakay chance ma happy. i am a living proof of that. unta maka himo ka sa right choice. goodluck girl. be strong for ur baby

[tauren_chieftain]

bitaw bitaw bitaw

[rr_sipat]

gurl, its not yet the end of the world. dont be scared to move on. naay mga taw diri nga naka ila nako and i am a very transparent person. i dont hide the truth from anyone. dili lang ikaw ang naka experience ug ingon ana, dili lang ikaw ang naka experience ug failed relationships ug masakitan, daghan ta. but then, kung dili ka mo get out from the pit u r currently in, im afraid u will embrace it completely. what i mean is, maanad unya ka nga i treat lang ka badly sa usa ka taw. its scarry. i had failed relationships too. i've had kids from those relationships but its not all ugly. right now, something great is happening into my life. thats after i decided to get out of a failing, dysfunctional relationship. i am hoping u will have the courage to make a difference in your life too. i may have lost or missed this chance if i continuously told myself that i will stand by my man no matter what. i realized one thing too, our happiness will not come from another person, its us who will bring that to ourselves...put an end to your misery. i know u will just do fine being pregnant maski wala na ang imong bf. trust me, if u decide to stick with him, everything will not end here...i've been observing your threads, from time to time, u have issues with ur bf. kapoy diba? there will be men who will take u and ur kid/s no matter what and will do everything to make u very happy. ayaw huna hunaa nga tungod gikan ka sa failed marriage and failed relationships, wala nakay chance ma happy. i am a living proof of that. unta maka himo ka sa right choice. goodluck girl. be strong for ur baby

I second the motion!