Is it ok to live away from husband and kids bec. of work?

[charmz_fire]

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if practicality ang pag-uusapan.. yea.. its okay, kay para nila ra mn sad ang imong gebuhat.
ky mag-unsa mn mo,. if kompleto tuod mo unya d mo kapakaon ug kapaeskwela sa inyong anak, d ba?
so better pa if layo ang isa unya magampanan pa jud ninyo ang inyong responsibilities towards sa inyong mga anak!

but if naa pay laing choice.. or ways para d mo mgkabulagsa.. mas maayo!
kay lahi ra jud ang mga batang ngdako nga naay kompletong genikanan!

[ronna]

i am living in a complete family. (Physically)
i mean, present jud tanan bah..
den ako cousins ila mama working far away.
maka feel jud ko sa ila sadness.
xempre mingawon sila.
den dili kaayo sila close if mouli na ila mama.
awkward daw etagad.
mas close pa sila sa ako mama kaysa sa ila jud mama.

di man jud na malikayan na mnikaysikay jud ang ginikanan para sa mga anak.
pero naa mansad tay gitawag nga kasingkasing na mingawon jud sa presenxa ug personal na alima sa ginikanan..

ok ra malayo kadyot. ayaw lang dugaya para di manganad.

[koppee1]

better not if you can. that bit about absence makes the heart grow fonder is probably short term

[jonielynne18]

ok raman na imu situation kay midyo dool rman na...narah mn mo sa philippines tanan and u can go home for weekends pa....
not ok if adto na sa gawas..... kay perteh na layoa where u cant see your childrens and your husband na.....
kinahanglan mn jud na both mother and father naa jud always sa kiliran sa ila childrens pra ma gayran sila maayo....dman gud pwede na usa ra mag guide nila. dili jud enough.

[jangoironic]

you have to sacrifice to provide for your family

[slicedbackhand]

based on my family's experience (my mom works in d US), and a lot of my friends' families whose parent/s work abroad... dili gyud advisable. usually magsuffer gyud ug grabe ang family emotionally. D family may be well supported finanacially, but money can never buy those precious moments that a family can share together.

in my opinion, It is better to have just barely enough (financially) and have a complete family, than to be in abundance but not complete.

[bluefairy]

It's not ideal but sometimes it's needed especially katong sa mga below middle class dire sa pilipinas. Unsaon man gud na bisan magkayod kay gamay ra gihapon sweldo.

But personally, I wouldn't allow this to happen jud. I don't care if we barely have enough, as long as we have each other. I grew up in a house with both my dad and mom. My cousins didn't. Although they had everything (money, toys, clothes) they could possibly think of, I think I was happier as a child coz my parents were there to guide me. Basta every opportunity that you have to save, take it so you won't have to sacrifice being away from your family.

[amingb]

Sa mga guys nindot jud ang ma Away kay maka gimmick man ... way maka buyag

[jackyboy]

Hi all.... I would like to ask your opinions about this... is it alright to live away from yuor family bec of your work.... I am actually working here in the city and my family is in the province.... my kids are also going to skul there..... I would go home every weekend...

But sometimes, in the middle of the week, I would miss them terribly and would want to go home... though, I have all the advantages in living alone here in the city but I still could feel that our decision to live this way might be wrong.....

pls help.... need some of your insights....

in your case, i think its ok. at least you get to come home every week end and have time for your family. hehe

in cases na mularga jud sa abroad, para nako dili ok. ky you cant see your family grow man gud. you dont get to see your kids learn how to sing abc's, do math, dance, learn trigonometry. i mean, you dont get to see your kids grow up, and that for me is the saddest part. i dont know about others but i'd really like to see my family grow. hehe. IMHO lng ni ha. hehe.

[burikoy12]

Kun pwede nga dili mobulag sa pamilya, mas maayo jud. Lahi ra jud nga magdako ang mga anak nga naa tanang parents.