How do you bond with your Dad?

[*dudes*]

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as far as I can remember, wala

[BloomerBeak]

Dili makig-bonding amung Papa. He's always busy. Karon lang gani ko makig-istorya jud sa iyaha nga nalayo ko sa ilaha. Text-text, mao ra. Tung naa ko sa balay, mag-dinner sa gawas, sa barbeque-han. Then kon naa events sa plaza, laag gamay.

Ang iyang pagka-busy maong problem namo. Eventhough naa siya sa balay, wala siya time alang namo. For him, it's always work, work, and more work. Kay kon dili daw tungod sa iyang pagtrabaho, dili mi mabuhi. Ug dili namo makaplagan ang maayong panginabuhi.

Anyway, now that I'm away, my sister always told me, wala jud daw time si Papa for them. What's new. He is "authority". Unlike kay Mama nga mura ra namo ug barkada.

[diem]

[font=arial][b] People; friends, relatives and casual acquaintences often remark that I am a carbon copy of my father. How apt being the eldest child, the first son. As a child, that remark always irritated me but now I am older I realize that its true, I have inherited more than just my genes from my parent.

I have his idealogies, his love for books, his yearning for knowledge, his moods and his manners. So in any way I bond with my father by just being myself.

I also found out one thing, I am more than his son. I am the man that he yearned to be in his youth but sadly chose not to be. I am his Dream on its way to fulfillment. I am living the life he always dreamed but would never live.

This is more than a bond, its a burden of conscience that pushes me to be the best I could be. For my father.

[ragingtakyo]

I never bonded with my father when he buy stuff for me but i find it strange that i felt the connection when we do chores together or making a project together...even without talking!

[Lostsoul]

My father and me..

We usually talk about a lot of things.. mga ideas namo, My father and me love books so we usaully talk about it.. hehe usahay sad about sa movie that we watch together.. heheh pereha man me ganahan na salida.. heeh and on top of that we sing together me playing the paino.. kay ako raman papa nindot ug tingong eheheh

[DebutsAndIDos]

We talk about business, money and land. My dad is the left-brained one among my parents.

Since I'm left-brained, too, I enjoy learning from him and discussing things with him. I get my inclination towards business from him.

[inks]

Ako walay bonding.. As much as possible magpalayo kay nagger man and mangatol man ang baba sa ko dad if dili mangasaba..

[jerx d great]

we both dring beer with my father!! and talk about politics, music ug usahay gani moabot sa tae..! hehehe

[DebutsAndIDos]

Oh, well, there are topics I avoid around my dad as well.

Like religion, for example. He is so trigger-happy to get into debates over religion. He doesn't mean anything negative (I hope ). But, once he's on a roll, it's so hard to get him to stop. It can be so tedious at times.

So, as soon as he starts, I make quick excuses (have to wash the plates, have to eat, have to buy food for dinner, hehehe.. ) and get out of the room while I still can.

[islao996]

kamang2 sa ilawam sa sakyanan... hehehehe