Getting over someone you love

[maddox_pitt]

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kini kay kanya-kanya man jud tag paagi kung unsaon pag let go og move on sa atong mga pain.


Getting over someone you love... what is your tactic?

..droppin by...
sa neocolors tuloy pa rin na song:

tuloy pa rin ang awit ng buhay ko
nagbago man ang hugis ng puso mo
Handa na kong hamunin ang aking mundo
Pagka't tuloy pa rin

it may take long, pero after sa hilak hilak gamay....try to pick up the pieces dayon...balik na sa normal life...

[urcandy111]

para maka get over ka nya...adto sa imong mga friendships and have some fun.

[urcandy111]

..hmmmm...just keep yourself busy... focus on career making hehehe..malingaw raka brad ug sistas...

then try wandering around the world ....

I agree with you..................

[deejjerjov]

...sa mga nag-agree naku...lamat..

Say:

" a girl like me wont crave for a stupid man like him, whatever he does and wherever he goes... im better than his EX and prettier than his next."

[esotericlove]

...sa mga nag-agree naku...lamat..

Say:

" a girl like me wont crave for a stupid man like him, whatever he does and wherever he goes... im better than his EX and prettier than his next."

korak! focus on other things than thinking about him..

[bhadz85]

try to appreciate other things...like fam and frens..

[emjee17]

do things that can divert your attention so as to not to keep on thinking about him.

mao ni ako pirmi buhaton.

[I2I]

weeheheeee..one thing ra akong buhaton ana...lista rako iya negatives ug positives then ako compare..
ask dayon nako ako self na move on...ana ra

[annerhexian]

Try these:

1. Cross out or erase his name anywhere you might have written it (e.g your notebook, your textbook, the wall of your bedroom, etc.)

2. Avoid all eye contact with them and try not to look longingly at him. You'll be more likely to get over the crush if you aren't always staring at him.

3. Don't spend too much time thinking by yourself or about yourself. You will most likely be thinking about him and start feeling depressed. Hang out with friends, try making new recipes or experimenting with art. Develop your talents and make goals for yourself.

4. You know you will see this person again. He is your friend and you don't want to lose him. Try to limit your time with him and start spending time with other people. Start dating and don't feel obligated to your friend, he's not dating you.

5. Learn from the experience and come out stronger. Listen to Gloria Gaynor's "I Will Survive".

6. Accept! Always remember that the toughest part will be to observe your friend be normal around you while you could struggle to do so. There is no way around it but to accept that everything cannot possibly be reciprocated.

7. Make lists of all the things that go against being attracted to him - love is blind, try to voluntarily open your eyes.

8. Try not to dwell on it, and either go out and make some new friends, or hang out with the old. But never be mean about them! It will only get back to them and then you will have lost a friend.

9. It's not healthy to keep hoping they will one day feel the same. Try to emancipate yourself from them for a while so that you can rid yourself of your feelings for him, because if you don't, the time you spend around him will be tense and bittersweet.

10. Try to stop thinking about him. You'll only feel worse if you do. Meet new people, talk to your friends.

11. Move on. Make a promise to yourself to get over it. And just DO it.

12. Reassure yourself. Look in the mirror every morning, smile, and tell yourself, "You're worth it." Really mean it. You didn't do anything wrong, and right now there's someone else out there for you. And it always helps to remind yourself that they are the ones that are going to be missing out on you. As they say, "Some will, some won't, so what? Someone's waiting."

13. Maintain your decision. If you find yourself slipping, remember the promise you made to yourself. And remember, this is where your girlfriends come in. Call for backup!

14. Associate. If and when you catch yourself thinking about him, pick out something about him that you dislike, and focus on it. Be honest. You may have built a fantasy of him in your head, but in reality they're not as great.

15. Distract yourself. Go out with your friends and have fun. Meet new people. Find a show or a game to immerse yourself in. Keep yourself busy and happy.

16. Take care of yourself. Keep well-groomed and put on your best clothes. It will do wonders for yourself esteem.

17. Find someone else. It can be difficult to get over someone if you're sitting there alone on Friday nights. Instead, call up that guy you have History class with who always smiles at you.

18. Live free. Live Strong. Live life. You're a great person and he was a fool not to see that. Before you know it you'll be back on track.

19. Get it out. A good cry always helps. just let your feelings pour out and before you know it. He will be just a thing of the past.

- I will follow some of this after sa talk jud.. hehehe. decide na jud.. paita baya na ma inlove din ang taw wala ra... pahipi mode jud..

MOVE on is a must for ur self lang jud..

[dKyOrt22]

magduwa basket ug maniko..