Mga balati-an sa mga survivors of broken families?

[mairead]

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hapit sad mi ma broken home...hapit lang ha....since i was a child.. i feel nag betray na ako father...i just kept to myself kay i don't know what to do that time...until i grow up..mao ra ghapon iya gbuhat...medyo nawala jud ako respect sa ako papa...my mom did everything just to keep us intake......

[mrjosh]

Ako jud broken home na... Hehehe...

I just took it as fuel to achieve the goal I want in life. I work hard to finish college on my own. Now I'm supporting my mom and my half brothers...

At the end, I know I am blessed with good job, good health, and inner peace. I did not put any grudges not hatred. My point is... just move on, everything has its reason, you may have lost your father but you have the best mother who can be both a father ans a mother to you, its a gift, treasure it, don't make the past your alibis not to move on or succeed... I tell you, you will become the best person you can be because of your past.

[Kishin888]

kami sad broken home pero dili third party ang issue ... kundili dalo ako amahan ug iya pirmi awayun ako mama .... mao na karun kung mag away mi sa ako papa kuwang nalang mag sumbagay mi

[stephanie]

luoy jud ang mga bata....being broken and at the same time eldest, i find it hard how to let our youngest understand the situation...and as a woman, mka trauma ang minyo...

[the_guardian]

i agree with mrjosh

i also came from a broken family and you know what i learn? my parents are big and mature enough to handle their own problem. let them solve it for themselves. sometimes gud as their child naay mga issues nga kita wla kahibaw and we should not just be deaf to one side and listen to another.

dili ka dapat mag-take ug sides since basin naa say lain issue about sa break up just like what happen to my parents as first i tawt ako papa naka sala then later on i found out naa sab diay sala ako mama.

so the best thing to do is learn from it pero ayaw intawon sunda. im already married and im hoping and always praying that my husband will remain faithful to me and i will be a good wife to him and a good mother to my children.

[umbrella-eh-eh]

UNWANTED,

don't let that situation bring you down, no matter what. Instead, embrace it as an inspiration.
Paningkamot lang gyud diha ug imo.

[onlyvic]

i dont have the same problem with you.. I may not understand how you guys feel pero I feel you. lisud bitaw jud na. sakto c umbrella-eh-eh... I agree and u shud see this as a challenge to be a better child to your mom and as a person sad.

[UNWANTED]

Thank you guys... that's what i'm gonna do, work hard and help my family. I won't be anything like my dad. I tried to listen to both parts but my dad can't explain a thing why he did it... it's just really BIGA! I know my mom my whole life... I grew up knowing that my mom is always there, she's been a very faithful wife and a good mother. She didn't buy expensive clothes even if she have some money because she always think about me and my siblings first, but my dad, all his stuffs are expensive and shit... always buy new cars and stuff, can't even give my mom a nice shirt... but he was able to go to some nice places with his mistress and buy her nice stuffs. So tell me... what kind of a father is that? I used to have a very high respect for my dad, I thought he was a good man... but I guess he was a fake. A couple of minutes ago there was another arguement between my dad and my mom and my sister... and he almost hit my sister and told her "mura kag dili mamatay" what kind of a father would threat his own daughter? he even had some guts to argue, knowing that it was all his fault. Luckily he didn't hit my mom or my sister... coz i'm sure as hell it's the end of him. I'm not gonna hold some grudge or hatred against him, I just really really wanna move out of this house with my family and move on, and reach for my goals so I can help my family.

[kyleeminogue]

i dont want to judge your dad nor will i say na wa pud ko nalooy sa imu mum.. all i know if ur dad wishes to be happy with that woman let him be.. kay sa mu stay sya sa relationship and he is not happy with your mum.. it takes two to tango.. d ra sad cguro sala sa imu dad maybe sa imu sad mum.. but you have urself to comfort ur mum..

[seven_segment]

payts ra na!

Basta naa si Mama...everything's gonna be alright

no one loves us most...kundi atong mga mama...

ipakita sa imong amahan...na kaya ninyo...

as if nothing changes...still the happy family he left...

in the end magbasol ra na...