HELP Sakit pa kaayo

[juknojukno]

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@xoxo thanks that's very inspiring!

actually, the girl has already broke up with that crack-head junky and she got married with another guy they are both now in Dubai. Which I think is good for her, I forgot to mention that last April weeks before she left Dubai she contacted me and so I responded and met her, I asked the reason for meeting me. She said "I wanted to check how you're doing after all these years and I want to know if you're ok and I want to make peace with you and wants us to be friends" wow! I was amazed finally she realized it was all her mistake.

I'm the kind of person who doesn't keep grudges to someone and I know it's hard on her part for the guilt she's carrying, so I told her "forget the past, we're young then and what we did was the best we have from our level of knowledge that time, you have a family now and it's best for you to focus on new married life"

I think she realized everything because I'm the one who send her to school, and I stopped college for 2yrs and work fulltime only to support her because we have an agreement that after she graduates she will send me back to school and let me finish college. But it was a big mistake, after graduation she left and went wild. Anyway that's the past, I'm just telling you guys a bit of infos from the past , God willing I finish college when we broke up and survived on my own. =)

As I've said I'm doing fine now, I'm working in an IT company, I'm a senior programmer. I live life to the fullest now. But as I have mentioned in the previous posts, our pasts sometimes lingers in our mind. =)

[Sol_Itaire]

^ngeks ka grabeh pod diay sa imong na invest niya tsk tsk tsk. ya you are right on the "we did what we knew." As Maya Angelou would say, "Now that we know better, we do better." ANother char.

sakto na imong pag forgive niya bro. forgiveness is the best way.

@XoXo tumpak ka manulti.

[XoXo_L_XoXo]

That's good....Good luck......

[XoXo_L_XoXo]

Sol_Itaire, experience is the best teacher......

Maka learn sad ta aning mga posts dire....I thought way kwenta ning mag atubang sige sa computer. Hahahaha

[pandahorde]

bro mao nay gi ingon. expect the unexpected ,awtss
dont wori there are many beers in the bar.

[XoXo_L_XoXo]

pandahorde, mao....basta sige lang ug deliver ang RH truck, way blema...

[chad_tukes]

.. what that was 6 years ago and still you haven't moved on ?? C'mon, don't be such a crybaby, you've wasted 6 years of your life mourning for that loss. Damn dude, no offense, but you need to knock your head on the dashboard for you to realize how weak a person you are. Stop whining and be a man, STOP WASTING YOUR LIFE.. MOVE ON.

lol. that's just harsh. ouch.

i agree though.

i'll post my opinion in a more gentle way. harsh harsh... tsk tsk. =(

@TS: six years is such a long time. i guess the saying "time heals all wounds" wouldn't be so applicable in your situation. but like fingolfin said, YOU GOTTA MOVE ON. there's no other way to forget about this woman but to move on. i know it's hard---but don't expect us to say otherwise and sympathize. we all go through shitty relationships and nothing is PERFECT. i can understand if you tell me "i want her back" if she's single, but then her being married is just not worth it. she contacted you because she's curious about how you've been, but that doesn't mean she's still interested.

[Breadfox]

don't worry sir. i still believe in the saying "everything happens for a reason"

and if you're worried that at 30 you're still single, kay imo man jud na mention gud, life begins at 40 man daw. nya ugka abot nimo ug 40, nya single pa, 50 is the new 40 naman pud. hehehe

bitaw sir, i-pray lang jud na. nga mahatagan ka ug partner nga perfect jud para nimo

[Breadfox]

Since I'm too lazy to read, I'm just gonna assume kugn unsa ng sakit...

Pag.gamit lagi ug lubricant para dili sakit >_>

hahahaha!!! lingawa nako aning tubag nimo oi!

[juknojukno]

hahahaha!!! lingawa nako aning tubag nimo oi!

ahahaha wa ko kabantay ani dayon na post da.

@sol_itaire I agree, we can't always blame people they did their best on the best of their knowledge. =)