i feel for you sis.. unsaon ang lalaki by nature is uwagan gyud.. and for sure dili maka huwat ug 9 months+3 months nga healing.. hehehe.. storyahi lang gyud ni ninyo problema.. the guy should realize that he is slowly throwing away the years that trust that he build within years for a new relationship that if full of uncertainty.. for me cheap move.. i would throw away the years nga amo gi build just for a night of fun..