base on observations, i've entered different forum sites (PEx for example), I tried to read their different threads and how people respond or react, I've seen a lot of off-topics, rants, profanities, and trash talking. I can conclude that the rules are not that tight when it comes to sensitivity in posting. I found istorya.net as a disciplined site although I observed some minor issues, but still I considered it as a clean and safe site.
my question to the mods is: how did you maintained such standards for a long time without getting regularly paid?