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[diem]

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[font=arial][b]@iryn, yes it's somewhat a delicate situation but when there is a WlLL there is a WAY

1) How about if you WILL find out what his interests are? Badminton? Photography? Does he belong to a focus group that pursue such interests? Like for example if he takes aikido classes, why not you join the same class? That's one way of hanging out with him.

2) You only have one mutual friend? Do you know any of his other friends? If so, how about if you WILL befriend his other friends so in a way build your brides for no person is an island. Link your circle of friends with his own: you'll have more friends and more chances to be with him, just to chill!

3) How about if you WILL take note of any special occasion, like his birthday, or the fiesta of his hometown. You never know that your mutual friend might be invited to attend and its possible you can tag along. Or how about if you will ask your mutual friend to invite him during any special events of your life!

4) How about if you WILL just ask if he wants to go for coffee or something to eat. If he asks 'are you asking me for a date?' You respond with surprise and casually tell him that you're just thirsty/hungry and don't enjoy drinking and dining alone. It feels weird for you.

Of course he will be thinking that you like him because you're asking him, but all he has is an assumption that he cannot prove... yet. There is nothing wrong for letting the guy have an idea, it's what he does with the idea is what matters.

If he accepts your invitation, then you can assume he has some interest in you or enjoys your company or at least, he is a gentleman.

If he takes a raincheck, then he's basically not into you or he's just really busy.

iryn, hope this helps a bit. At least you know you can do something about it.

Sincerely wishing you all the best in Life and love~!

[hpxox_007]

do it as a group thing first and see how it goes..

[Ms.Beau]

ey iryn ask that guy to hang out in istorya :mrgreen:

[Streetcar]

Also get his cel number and send him thoughts to ponder text messages everyday. I'm sure he reads it. Pero ambot, lisud no. Unless naa mo mga common friends and barkada, its easier that way pero kung wala you have to be creative without appearing like you are the one after him. Dili sab ko kamao unsaon na. Good luck. The safest way is to be friends gyud.

[brix_2006]

guys, i appreciate if you could give me an advice.

I had a gf and weve been for about 8 months na.
She had a bf before where when we met, they are already in an on&off situation and she told me they finally broke up.
I went to the capital for my work and leave her here. Unfortunately her bf still calls her and wanted her back-hes outside hte country.

Last month, her bf returned to phils to see her. I just learned that they met and slept together. My gf decided to be with me in manila to stay with me and prove that she will do everything for me - for one month without telling me that. I just leaned that from her mobile. She refused to accept but later she admitted it and she told me that shes a fool why she did that and she said she is in the state of confusion that time and finally she chose me. She wanted me to kill her if thats the only way for her to pay and forgive her. She is begging for me to stay.

What I could not understand is why she has to tell me a lie. Nag -on na mi during that time. Do you think she is worthy keeping and forgive her? i need your advice.

[headblockx888]

leave her.. plain and simple hehe leave her before anything else like that will happen to both of you agian.. no mercy dude! hehe

[Ms.Beau]

for me also: leave her. she's old enough to understand that her actions have consequences, so if that means you leaving her, then she should accept it, right? if she threatens to kill herself don't play rescuer. call the experts.

okay let me qualify the leaving. it may be for good or just temporary, really up to you. but i believe you have trust issues at this time, right? so it would not also be healthy to keep the relationship as is when deep inside you have resentments. those will eventually surface. if during the time of separation she earns your trust again, then there's hope. i maintain that this woman should be accountable for her actions!

[john_yo]

para nako lang bro ha, SHE HAS DONE IT AND SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN... AND AGAIN... AND AGAIN... leave her, its plain and simple. dont be stupid enough to follow your heart kay in the end you will end up badly wounded.

[iryn]

Also get his cel number and send him thoughts to ponder text messages everyday. I'm sure he reads it. Pero ambot, lisud no. Unless naa mo mga common friends and barkada, its easier that way pero kung wala you have to be creative without appearing like you are the one after him. Dili sab ko kamao unsaon na. Good luck. The safest way is to be friends gyud.

i know super lisod gyud cause girls have to wait to be asked, i mean ok raman nako that i ask guys first but i like him man gud so murag what he thinks of me matters a little bit man sad hehe =p

haha you know what i do send him quotes, cause he recently broke up with his girl for 2 years already, tapos he doesnt reply man sad but when i send group hi hello messages (i dont really send them, just got an idea of sending group messages when a couple of my friends/classmates do that to prolly maximize their unlimited service) and sometimes he does reply to me, sometimes dili sad.
but im getting the clue that he only sees me as a friend kai he does not text me =c
sad kaayu noh?

[iryn]

ey iryn ask that guy to hang out in istorya :mrgreen:

humm pwede sad! but he's not the forum type of person, but maybe he will enjoy forums when he tries istorya...lets see what happens =p