Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[babygin2005]

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So sad...kauban pajud mo sa work...tsk, tsk...i know how it feels jud...i've been there, and fortunately, through prayers and believing that you can do it, i was able to let go of him. Although, i was the one who broke up with him first, but it was my pride who pushed me to do it. I already uttered the words "its over" and I have to stick to it. There were times that I was tempted to communicate to him, but, i really, diverted my attention to other things. Ngiga niya noh, modaku jud samut iya ulo, if magpakita ko nga in love pa ko niya...che!!! so I got myself busy. I joined organizations, i met new friends etc..and it did helped. Then, naa pud time nga magparamdam sya, ako gi.kevs iyang beauty..naka realized na guro to sya. At that time, I only ask God to take away all my feelings of depression, hatred etc. It is only through prayer and willingness to move on can heal you dong...be happy!!

[-CL-]

..been there! and now i tell u.. wat u should do? try diverting urself to things u don't usually do, or things that keeps u from thinking much of her.. meet new friends, if u must date somebody else.. don't reminisce on memories coz they will only eat u up bro.. try focusing on things that could make u happy and stay on focus on wat u really need to obtain.. and that is forgetting her..

..it's better said than done, i know.. but if ur really determined on what u are doing, u can do it.. i know it's really really hard for u, since 2 years is not merely a getting to know relationship.. pero if u wanted to be happy, just let go of the things that makes u sad.. stop communicating with her, that's the most passable trick..

[commonsense]

naa pud giadvice sa ako friend nako

i did not do this kay naka move on na man ko wala pa buhaton ko ni

write to urself a letter that u wud want to write to that person. but u are not going to send it to him or worse let somebody read it... then after that u can burn it.

i don't know what u'll feel after kay la na ko abot ani nga part sa ways to move on.

u might want to try it nya i-PM ko ha. para kbw ko unsa feeling hehehe

kasuway man ko ani oi. .pero para lang to sa ako papa ang letter. .tanan nako kalagot ako gisuwat didto gikan pagbata nako. .kuwang-kuwang ra lagi ang 6 ka yellow pad back to back nya gagmay kaayo ug agi. nya ako gihipos hangtod karon, mao to sige ko balik balik ug basa, ka realize pud kog ahat sa akong mga sayop karon ok nami sa akong papa. .hehehe. .

OnT: learn to accept and forgive that's the time you can move on. .

[raigo250]

I know how it feels..it happened to me also 4years ago na, it's not easy baya. eventually, mawala ra na but you know i'll tell you, sahay mukalit lang ko og hinumdum atong bayhana na wa tuyo.a..the best way para nako is mangita ka og laing target bro..hehehe..date2 lang sa jud ayaw diresto.a...eventually, makalimtan ra na nimo cya..and also AYAW PALABI PAMINAW OG MGA KANTA NA RELATED ANANG MGA BROKEN-HEARTED/PAIN SONGS..

Well, if ganahan ka try to listen this "Sandali Lang" by Silent Sanctuary..hehehehe

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[Baeybe_Bryce]

Let go of the feeling first...

[Donzki]

What if nagdadalang tao na cya. I know she even though wala ko ingna niya. Nabasan nako sa iyang txt message. What will happen to the baby man.

[xkenikensx]

thats a big WHAT IF brah,... man u know wat just be a man and go F around!!!! dont be such A . thiers a lot of fish in the sea, and normal ra ingon ana imo ma feel kai bag.o pa man ... as what everyone says time can heal it bro... magkatawa lang ka tingali days/ months / years mo pass then ur still an istoryan .. magkatawa ka mag tan.aw ani na thread!

gud luck!

[Soul_Captive]

What if nagdadalang tao na cya. I know she even though wala ko ingna niya. Nabasan nako sa iyang txt message. What will happen to the baby man.

What do you mean, bro? Pregnant xa with the other guy? If so, the more you have to let go..Vanish before she uses your kindness and plays with your heart na klarong in love pa au niya..

[Soul_Captive]

I know how it feels..it happened to me also 4years ago na, it's not easy baya. eventually, mawala ra na but you know i'll tell you, sahay mukalit lang ko og hinumdum atong bayhana na wa tuyo.a..the best way para nako is mangita ka og laing target bro..hehehe..date2 lang sa jud ayaw diresto.a...eventually, makalimtan ra na nimo cya..and also AYAW PALABI PAMINAW OG MGA KANTA NA RELATED ANANG MGA BROKEN-HEARTED/PAIN SONGS..

Well, if ganahan ka try to listen this "Sandali Lang" by Silent Sanctuary..hehehehe

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I agree about not listening to sad songs especially kanang mga kanta na feel jd au nimo ky it hits the mark jud with how your story went..
Take your time bro..Di man gani dali akoa na once a month rami mgkita adto before, and I have not seen him since we broke up, kana pa kaha imoha na everyday manjd..Find something you enjoy doing, meet new people (join Istorya's monthly eb) and learn to have fun on your own..

[ceden_yu143]

move on...get busy to the things nga malingaw ka ta da same tym mkalimot ka nya...things nga di na mkahinumdom niya bah...