Bullying in School

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waahhh ako owyz sa gradez scuL...
hmmm ang akO nakuHa kay piang!
cge ko suntoKon sa ako cLazm8 na boy... d pa man ko mosukol dat tym gud

[crinkle]

wah... there were bullies at where i used to work. hahaha... bullies from the corporate world can be so funny. all they really achieved was self incrimination. good thing i left before it all went kaput.

[skylee_swoop]

my son got bullied for the second time, last week lang.
a friendster mom PMed me about it kay klasmet man iya son og ako.
nalouy ko, wala koy mabuhat coz i'm in palawan.
my son belonged to the top 3 and 1st sa pinaka behave sa klase.
galibog ko ngano ing-ana ang klasmet nya... ngano manghilabot nga sukad ako anak dili man jud na manghilabot... i molded him to be like his dad (dili lang ko bright atut) nga behave.

tungod nga layo ko sa pagka-karon, nag ask ko favor sa friendster mom nga ipabalhin ako son palayo sa bully. nya ako dayon gisumpayan nga kung dili madisiplina sa parent ang bully nga anak nila, akoy mo-bully sa iya parent nig balik nako diha... well... thank God nabadlong jud ang bully kid nila. i guess the parent knows now what i do for fun... how much more if i defend my son from a threat....hehehehh

[gerard]

sa work sad kapoy kau ning subayun.. pasagdan nalng...

[DyslexicHeart]

My five year old rides the school bus and the boys outnumber the girls. As expected there would always be teasing between the two gender groups. However, there are these two boys who do more than teasing - they are fond of taunting and hurting the girls physically.

One particular afternoon, my kid came home crying uncontrollably and said she doesn't want to go to school anymore. The bullies knew what would make her really upset - an unpleasant remark about my daughter's younger sibling. They persuaded the whole bus troop to chant "xxxxx's sister is ugly... ugly...ugly..." And yes, gikumot ako kasingkasing pagkakita sa ako anak nga gahilak ug pagkadungog ngano.

I gave her an opportunity to talk about it and vent out her feelings.
After rebuilding her self-esteem, I told her that daddy and mommy can't always be by her side to defend her. I encouraged her to stand tall, be courageous and tell the bullies that her sib is beautiful. I added not to let the bullies see that she is afraid or intimidated because they will bully her even more. I also talked with the caregiver/yaya of the school bus about the incident. Thank God, I never heard from my daughter any complaints after the incident and her grades remain unaffected... It turns out that one of the kids who kept on jeering at her was always asking for a younger brother and sister from his parents and would even make up stories that her mommy is pregnant or is in the hospital giving birth.

Bullies are bullies because they want to show the kids that they are powerful by picking on them. Sometimes, they want to seek attention which they seem to lack at home. Others are rude and violent because they are also "bullied" in their own houses or come from families where verbal and physical abuse are common. There are also bullies who aim for academic achievers or students who excel in a particular field. Maybe, bullies are envious kids, too. Some bullies are really cowards - they are just mighty when they are with a group but when alone, they just hang their heads so low to avoid even an eye contact with the other kids.

[seeteemahsuu]

ang among mga bullies sa elementary/high school nag bagong buhay na gyud. nakurat ko kai magpadala lang ug kalit ug mga positive/religious txt msgs. amazing! the Lord works in mysterious ways.

[e-v-s]

bullies don't learn until you stand up to them.

[Siobhan]

even in college naa pa ning bullying hahays

[moz_k2]

remember ko sa una kato bata pako
naa mi bully jud kaau na silingan.
salig lagi kay dako.

nya iya man napikhan ako manghod.
pag agi sa amo kulatahon bitaw namo.
da hilak lagi, wla na jud mousab.
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during my elementary days usa ko sa mga mobo sa klase
so kato tag.as kusog kaau mang bully, hagad dayon ug sumbagay
pag high school sila napud ang wla katubo, naapsan na nko sila.
ang uban tga abaga nalang, sus ig duwa ug basketball permi lang banggaan pag.ayo.
dli jud ka panghambog oi.

[DyslexicHeart]

remember ko sa una kato bata pako
naa mi bully jud kaau na silingan.
salig lagi kay dako.

nya iya man napikhan ako manghod.
pag agi sa amo kulatahon bitaw namo.
da hilak lagi, wla na jud mousab.
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during my elementary days usa ko sa mga mobo sa klase
so kato tag.as kusog kaau mang bully, hagad dayon ug sumbagay
pag high school sila napud ang wla katubo, naapsan na nko sila.
ang uban tga abaga nalang, sus ig duwa ug basketball permi lang banggaan pag.ayo.
dli jud ka panghambog oi.

Oo, naay mga bullies nga kusig muhilak kung mapildi na...