should i wait or should i leave?

[legal_cd]

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nope..the guy in my ava is gay..hehehe...nagselos lan nuon akong ex ana nia because we were sooo close...

unsa may advise sa imong close friend diay?

[LeeLeePot]

unsa may advise sa imong close friend diay?

kaning tapad nako sa ava? he doesn't know it yet...kai basi madistorbo to xa sa farmville nia ug mulupad pnakalit diri sa manila..mangusog baya jud to basta amigo nai mamroblema..so i didn't tell him kai d ko gusto makabother pa..heheh

[walker]

looking closely at your thread title, i do not think you should be waiting nor leaving. just be who you are, what you are, stay as you are.

the ball is in his court. he has a lot to prove by laying out those conditions himself.

sometimes, men set the standards themselves. and when we do, we give our all to prove it, to make us worthy. believe me, i know.

but there are some of my specie who may not live to those standards. sadly...

[dearlabe]

I'm sorry to hear about this lee. Correct me, you know him better than I, but I find his reasons so lame and it irritates me. Whatever is his problem now you definitely deserve to know. Don't let him do this to you intawn. This is nothing but torture and it's unfair. If he cares about you and if you really matter to him then by all means he should not let you go but instead assures you of the very core reality of what's bothering him and what his plans are or even asks you to help him in going through this chapter in his life. Together you should face this problem and not let one be lost in translation. You should insist to know Lee, you have all the right to. Hoping for the best to both of you

[kajrot1]

kalimti nalang nang tawhana! dugang2 rana sa stress , samot ta ka tiguwang hehe

[SundryBox]

I really hope you'll be okay. NO.. you will be okay. If dli na cya nimo... ngano man diay... important thing there is that wla ka gbuhat na anything wrong niya. Let his conscience eat him up whole. Ako maoy galagot niya.

[reginakrys]

kalisod pud ani oi.. lisod gyud na buhian kana nga relationship kay daghan na mog trials na-endure together.. basin na overwhelm lang cya sa news.. i mean dli baya lalim nga makadiscover ka all of a sudden nga naa kay anak.. maybe he's debating with himself in his head whether to support the child, or unsay role dapat niya i-play to the child.. i don't know.. we can't really tell what's going on in his head.. but even then, he should have opened up to you.. ahak pud anang ignon lang ka nga 'don't ask further questions kay you might get hurt'.. samot nuon kang ma-curious unsa jud ang whole story diba..

anyway, i see nga you've decided already to wait it out for 2 months.. well and good, but you know that everyday for that 2 months you'll be wondering about it.. it's emotional torture..

and i suggest you don't hold him for his promise nga he will come back.. i'm not implying nga he won't be true to his word.. just try to save yourself from further disappointment.. your heart is at stake here..

[LeeLeePot]

unta oi malampasan namu ni just like before...he always keeps on telling me that we would finish the race together during those times nga ako pud ang mubuhi na unta..that's what kept me going on this relationship..his words na we will always be together and we will finish the race together..i know his reasons are lame but i pretty much grasped the concept of his words that he doesn't want me to get hurt that much (although hasta na jud sakita..siguro musamot pa jud kasakit kung iya jud ingnon tanan2x..haay!). i still believe that we would be on this together....bahala ug ulahi mi ani sa race ug magsige mig kadagma but we will still reach the finish line together. i just need him to wake up and realize jud that he is not alone with whatever that troubles him. siguro karma na pud ni nako sa tanan pud nako gibuhat nga pagpahilak nia tong una...i am such a bad girlfriend...haaay!

[redjvshopnshop]

then why won't you discover the truth yourself?....

ang ako lang ni ha... d sa nanglabot ko... kanang try daw ipa confirm if iya jud ang bata... or how true ang iyang statement.. i know you trust him and love him so much, but will you let pain eat you alive, kept you hanging in the ayer... aayer ayer.! bita sounds crazy.. but, try to find if its true... total its for your own good nman, and dont forget to pray TS...

i think god can explain... have faith in him. ok?