Is it ok to live away from husband and kids bec. of work?

[zakidog]

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better stay together... its emotionally draining jud.
wa pay cguro matintal imo hubby...

[bongjo]

if there's a way, better to stay with the family, bahala nag saging basta loving,

[Zahara]

To each his own... but i don't agree. Distance makes the heart grows fonder...FOR ANOTHER!!! So, better be safe. Bahala na gamay ra ang money as long together ang family.

[aGoi..]

well ideally, no... but the thing is, working in the city gives you and your family better opportunities of living and a even a more comfortable life for the whole family. it just takes a little sacrifice i guess.. lucky for u even coz u see them on weekends. unlike OFWs who rarely see their kids.

[ivymarie]

my husband works far away from ue and my son also. preggy pako ron....but it's ok...we should be practical. we need the money to help us with our needs. basta we do nothing wrong to keep our marriage forgotten.

[rey04]

always not ok, statitiscally.....

[moonstruck_mom]

ideally, no. not good for the marriage and not good for the kids. however, i'm not here to judge. it depends on the financial and family situation, decision of both husband and wife. but if given the choice, dili jud maayo.

[junenine]

I would say no, but if it is the only way that I can bring food on the table and pay for the monthly bills, it has to do and that will be my choice.

[tech_eds]

well i can relate to this because this is our situation too..i am in the province, my husband is in the city..its hard, we see each other every weekend only, worse if he had an appointment, we dont see each other for 2 weeks..i am really planning to transfer in the city, i hope and prayed that i can get a job next year in the city..

[ocmkg]

i have been married for sometime already and there were occasions which required me to be away from home for extended periods of time. but in hindsight, i can say it is really ideal nga kauban ang family but if this cannot be done, importante that the spouses should keep the intimacy. Loss of intimacy is like a crack in the wall. at first dili ma notice unya makurat na lang ka kay dako na diay. and in everything, pray always, if possible pray together despite the distance (ang amo gibuhat kay magsabot lang mi unsa orasa mosimba sa sunday or unsa time mag pray sa rosary). hope this helps.