What if your GF cheats on You!

[gori_grimreaper]

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sturya ra jud katapat ani... basin diay naa siya reason jud dili baya mag.abot ila mga sked basin feel niya dili na ganahan ang laki niya or basin siya na pud mismo dili na ganahan

[coolnezz]

What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You | Lovesites


Infidelity is one of the hardest things to face in a relationship. If you find out that your girlfriend has cheated on you, the first thing you must do is take a deep breath and relax. Feelings of anger, hurt and betrayal are strong emotions that can blur your judgment. While some people prefer to end such a relationship at once, others might prefer to talk about it if they feel they genuinely love the other person and want to give their relationship another chance.

Depending on what you want to do, it is recommended to talk to your mate and find out what made them do this. Talking about it may help in getting a clearer view of what should be done next. If you think that you won’t be able to ever trust them then you should just break the ties or take some time apart from each other. It is still really important to get an understanding to exactly what happened and why they decided to cheat on you with someone else.

Cheating can come in different forms and levels of severity too. You might consider it cheating if you find out that your lover was kissing someone while they were intoxicated. This might be a pretty big deal to you but sort of an excusable incident. If you found out that your partner slept with someone else then that is obviously a much larger issue. What happens if you find out that your lover has been emailing or chatting with someone else online romantically? This is an instance where you need to find out what needs you are not fullfilling or what problems they are having in communicating these issues.

Trust your instincts in most cases but don’t accuse your partner that they are cheating unless you know 100% as this can cause a lot of dissention in your relationship and drive them away from you. Being overly protective can be just as bad as cheating. Nobody likes to be with a overly jealous person that is always wanting to know where you are and who you are with. Build up the trust in one another, keep communication lines open and you won’t have to worry about them cheating on you or looking else where for physical and emotional connections.

-Brian R.

[pablingz]

Guyz, kung sitwastyon nga masakpan nimo imo uyab nga naay lain , nabasa nimo sa iyang celphone ug uban pa , naa jud ka proof ... Unsa imong buhaton?

Situation:
Girl: Callcenter agent, 3am - 1pm ang sked.
Man: Account Personel, 8am - 6pm and sked.
- These two had been together for 5-6 Years...
- They both love "daw" each other.
- They were through with ups and downs in life. Yet? hayyyy..
- Lastly, The Man knows whats shes been doing, Yet the Girl is clueless. How will this Man deal with this?

So what will you gonna do in this kind of situation?

Please post a sensible one.. It reflects on who you are and what you are. okey!

well if naay proof, sturyahon sa jud, then most probably makigbuwag jud ko. for me , betrayal of trust naman gud na. its like gihimo ka ug tanga ba. so, sturyahon lang sa nko, at least ang among panagbuwag kay tarong.

[Cash14]

broke up with her.. i deserve not to be cheated.

[TypeR - Drift]

Guyz, kung sitwastyon nga masakpan nimo imo uyab nga naay lain , nabasa nimo sa iyang celphone ug uban pa , naa jud ka proof ... Unsa imong buhaton?

Situation:
Girl: Callcenter agent, 3am - 1pm ang sked.
Man: Account Personel, 8am - 6pm and sked.
- These two had been together for 5-6 Years...
- They both love "daw" each other.
- They were through with ups and downs in life. Yet? hayyyy..
- Lastly, The Man knows whats shes been doing, Yet the Girl is clueless. How will this Man deal with this?

So what will you gonna do in this kind of situation?

Please post a sensible one.. It reflects on who you are and what you are. okey!

It only means nga gigamit raka niya... well, just move on.
Common na gyud na sa mga call center agents.
they fling too much...
most of the girls nowadays can't be trusted...
not all though... i'm still hoping to find one also

[zeldo]

For me storyahan sa namo but definitely I would break up with her...This is betrayal naman ni sab gud..

yes kita mga laki is nag cheat but unsaon man ing ani man gyud ta polygamy in nature maibog man gyud ta(dili man kalikayan) but that does'nt mean we don't love our partner....mao ni kun naa gyuy panagsabot malikayan gyud ni sya ing ani(both men and women)...
Importante kaayo communication ug time sa magpartner gyud....If no time, then make time for both of you....

[ozracing]

bro, if ang imo PROOF bah kay cellphone messages ra...then I think dili na cxa accurate nga basehan if nag "cheat ba gyud tinuod imo GF...
sometimes man gud, mag biga2x man gud ning mga girls sa mga text messages...(flirting lang)...to the point nga mka ingon kag nag cheat...pero usahay dha ra gyud na cla kutob..flirt2x ra...pero dili buhaton in reality...kabalo man pud na cla mo atik2x gud.

pero if imong evidence bug-at pud...lets say, mka read kag msg saying " ATO NYA TO USBON HA KAY GANAHAN KAAU KO. or perhaps..CHECK INN TA UGMA"....then kana hinuon.
My point is...study your eveidence correctly and make your own reasoning. kay if duna kay maski 1 single doubt sa imo evidence then DO NOT CONCLUDE....

[digital_NFS]

I trust my GF so much...
i hope di nah nya ma-buhat sah akoa...

[zzexniwp312]

k ra bro oi. dili raman ikaw ang naa sa ingon ana na sitwasyon. i just got out from a bad relationship too. naa pa gyud mi 4 year old nga anak. kanang nas avatar. the guy, father sa baby, wala na gani mag tagad sa bata. mau pana ingon ana, as early as now, natabo na kaysa sa minyo namo. wala gani ko kahibalo sa reason nganon gi ingon ani ko niya, i gave him all and beyond what is expected from a gf...love gyud kaau nako siya...murag nawala iyang respect nako kay maski makasala siya, ako man siyang madawat balik gud. i told him this, unta dili nimo ma experience nga ikaw ang mabinuangan kay perti gyung sakita. it was his mom who told me nga naay lain, pero dugay na nako nga feel nga naa gyud

faeta pud ani sis noh.. ug maka basa ko ug ingon ani nga story bah.. mawagatangan q gana sa ako relation ron.. mag dugay man unta pero in the end mag buwag ra diay japun

[orochimaru700]

aw kung mag cheat? ayaw nalng pakita ky mapusilan gyud tka bayhana ka! hehehehe