Dealing with In-laws

[florevic]

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whew!! what a story.

care for any diplomatic action, florevic? I mean, fire can't be put off by fire. g what i mean?

Yes, nakasabot ko.

Pero before bitaw kay ako man sila sabton nya sila man sige ug test nko kun asa ko kutob... Mao nato nga ako na sila gisuklan... Basin dis tym sila na sad ang mopaubos kay di man ko nila makaya...

[JaMrAcK]

nya unsa raman imo bana?

[rey04]

KILL THE NAUGHTY IN-LAWS!

[florevic]

nya unsa raman imo bana?

He respect me... Wa ra siyay sulti in front of them pero kung kami ra duha, kasab-an ko niya pero mo-voice out jud ko kay most of the tym, wa man sya nga mahitabo na.

Unya, magbuhat-buhat man sad sila ug istorya about nko nya ang ako mga silingan nga nakita ug nakadungog molaban man nko, mao nga motuo sya nga wa koy sala...

Pero, gipakita jud sa akong husband in front of them nga pinangga ko nya. And Im happy for it pero I have no plan nga mag-abusar ko!

[Tamblot]

just watch your back.

[ivymarie]

why does an in law hate you? maybe because you're also hard to deal with or maybe because you're not communicating well to them....or maybe you're just oh so irritated with them too.

well, i'm a married woman for three years already. at first, my in-laws were mad at me for having stolen their son's heart and of course, their ambitions for him and all that.....

but after all the kindness and love i gave them, they're all the way supporting us up to this moment. They never felt that their son is away from them though he is physically.... bec. he works in another place.


Well, to make the story short, you have to be the 1 to open up to them and share your feelings with them.

[goryo13]

my in-law will always be a pain in the a?? no matter what. the least i could do is avoid being chummy with her cos when i do, she would start to treat us like kids again

[junenine]

ang akong mother-in-law sa bag-o pa ko diri, mora ug mo look down nako. Nag grocery shopping me, nangutana pa ug naa ba kuno tay grocery store sa Pilipinas. Nagtuo siya nga primitive lang gihapon ang atong kinabuhi diha.
unsay akong gihimo, nag collect ko ug mga picture gikan sa Philippines. Kanang mga picture sa Mall.. inside ug outside view, mga high rise building, city traffic para makakita siya nga naa sab tay mga sakyanan diha sa ato.
very irritating, pero nag pasensya lang gud ko.

[evs]

@junenine, that's funny....hehehe...

i don't have problems with my in laws, luckily they are both very nice and supportive and so as my hubby's 2 bros and their wives. i actually make time for my mother in law like bring her shopping and have lunch with her, i don't enjoy it that but i want to make sure that she knows that she matters and is welcome in our lives. if you treat them good, they will treat you good, if they get snotty to you then it's their loss not yours.

[syangi]

hay naku!! lahi2x gyud tag experience sa atoh Inlaws.. buti nalang ok rami sa ako Inlaws, ma dala rah.. Just pray florevic cause GOd will provide a way lang unya na ma luwas ka sa imo kalbaryo.. kapuy bya ang life na naa kay kalagutan oi.. Just stay strong and happy lang for ur family..