Do Guys really have the patience to WAIT?

[Fern]

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simple answer:

man loves you = he can wait
man not trully love you = he cant wait

girl loves the guy = kasal daun
girl nangita pa lain nga nice = extend ang kasal hehehe

this makes real sense...

[figer143]

2012 nlng na para dugay2x hehehe peace.........

we can wait but ayw cge change og date kay mora me nimo og gi g*go kay cge ka ilis date set a DATE nga pwd jd pero kung dipa ka ready mgpa kasal aw prankahi ang guy para dli mg expect na kana nga date mo e kasal kay ma pul-an iya parents ana......

BTW... di diay pwd wedding day then back 2 work? sabot2x nlng mo para ma clarify ninyo!!


invited me ana sa wedding day ninyo kung mdayon?

[figer143]

looy pd kaau ang guy if cge lang cyag huwat dba?? e sure na jud dapat ang sched sa imung kasal para happy na jud..

mao jud looy kaayo ang guy ani na situation full of disappointment

simple answer:

man loves you = he can wait
man not trully love you = he cant wait

girl loves the guy = kasal daun
girl nangita pa lain nga nice = extend ang kasal hehehe

+1 heheheh

nangandam pa jud cguro ug maayo para bonga jud ang kasal mao cge extend.. HEHEH!!

cguro bro...

[Twinkz]

sa experience sa ako miga kay kato nibalibad siya og pakasal sa iya bf(while iya bf kay pirti pa paningkamot 2 be financially secure and medyo start pa ni boom ang career pero at least makabuhi na)-nisabot ra ang lalaki og nagwait.

after pila ka years na medyo financially capable na ang lalaki ,ni-ask napod sya pakasal sa ako miga. Tapos nibalibad nasad...then sabot nasad siya. then mga 4 tyms na siya gi-ask sa lalaki sukad adto...hantod ron wa na jud naghisgot og pakasal ang lalaki,wa na kau ni communicate pod.
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pero siguro if love ka kaau sa imong uyab makahuwat ra guro na but ayaw sad abusar change change mind hehe like magpasalig...ayaw nalang hisgot date sunod hehehe..pero kon ok ra na sa imo bf hala padayon hehe

[cp103]

Here's the thing.. I keep on changing the date/month/year of our wedding day. When he proposed to me March last year I told him that we could get married by July. Then by summer I changed the month to October. When August Came, I told him to move to December. But by November, I have to make a career change that it affected our marriage plans. I told him to set our wedding for this year either June or July. But just the other day I told him to move it to January 2011.

I know It's my fault that I keep on changing the dates. When he asks me about marriage my mind will be blank for a couple of seconds. Mura bitaw ug MAGMINYO na jud diay ko?! Siguro ma shock lang ko. He told me that his family is worried kay basin mapul-an siya but he assured me nga dili daw siya mapul-an ug hulat. Now, my question is.. Do guys really could wait? Basin muabot ang time nga magmahay ra ko kay sige kog change sa date. I really love him, but I have priorities lang jud for now.

hi el, kmusta? would love to talk to you about this situation in person, but i understand you have a lot of priorities, so i'll just post it here, hehehehe.

kabalo ka el, all human beings have the ability to be patient, the only question that you need to ask is, how long is a person's patience? The answer? it's subjective, subjective kay mag.depend mana per person gud, one basis you have is how well you know the person, coz from there, you can basically measure how patient the person is.

anyway, naa lang ko gamay advice el. Don't constantly keep on changing your mind about your wedding date. If dili plang ingon nga dugay na mo kaila sa imo hubby, he would have thought nga your trying to avoid the matter all together, i know he does not think that way(or maybe we are assuming that he does not) since he loves you and all. but there is a limit to everything el, i hope you don't forget that. No matter how patient he is, he will get eventually fed up if things go like the way they are right now. Remember that he is only human.

I suggest you set your prioritie straight first el, if you need to make a timeline as to how long you need to accomplish what you have to, then do so, at least, you will have a visual guide as to how far you are going along your plan. Then after making those timeline, talk to your hubby about it, to make sure everything is going to go according to plan. You need to talk to him about this so as he won't be left hanging and at least if he knows, then he should be able to understand and you wouldn't feel pressured as much. Lastly, if whatever plans you have already agreed upon, then stick to it no matter what, don't keep on drastically changing the plans that will result in you postponing the wedding date. If ever there are unforeseen changes due to situations out of your control, then at least work around making the set plans and goals to work.

[elia]

OT: Hi Dangelindisguise and CP103 --- I missed you guys.. I had been super busy especially Elections is just around the corner. Been traveling like hell and I think I am almost stressed out.


OnT: I really appreciate everyone's advice. Thank You so much! I want to settle down but I just can't this year. My brother had finalized his decision that He is getting married this OCTOBER. So ako give way nalang maski ako ang maguwang. Sure na jud ko next year. Pero nagproblema ko sa month. Nah the other day giingnan ko nga bati daw nga Month ang January, nindot jud ang MAY. Saon nalang jud ning suggestion sa mga tao nga mga months daghan mga taboos.

[elia]

For now amoang tentative schedule kay January 2011. Hopefully dili na machange. Untag makahulat pa ako fiance anang panahona.

[pandesal_clay]

Yes i have the patience..

[aaliyah]

He really can wait if He really loves you. Frame these words and put them on your wall: "Dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you. And regardless of what else you put on, wear love. It's your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it. Let the peace of Christ keep you in tune with each other, in step with each other. None of this going off and doing your own thing" (Colossians 3:12-15 TM)."

[crisyrose]

all i can say nimo sis,dili paka gusto magminyo...unya nalng mo settle ug tme kung ok na tanan