What if you fall in love with the "wrong" person?

[RainDrizzle07]

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Awwww... this is very sad man oie..

but anyway I can understand her situation specially the part where she is afraid na mo risk mangita ug work here sa cebu coz bacg iya nyang ma boss is one of her client, or worst she will receive indecent proposals from the big boss who knows what she was doing before she gets the job.

and honestly in my honest opinion pud, she will not really look for any job nah aside from the above mention coz in her field, you may like it or not she is pretty much earning over and above minimum, am i right?

and if she will look and be able to find a good job bacg kuwang ra ang sweldo and she is the breadwinner so dli jud pd, am i right again?

prangka pag ka storya lisud2x jud imo sitwasyon brod pero sa ila na ganing gsulti, naa ra jud na nmo ug unsaon... sayang kaayo kay na nakita na unta ka ug potential na makyog, pero pamalandungi nlng pud ang ilang gpanulti na what if magka kamu then after pila ka years ug mag away mo, dli ba sad kayha na nmo iboy2x sa iyaha ang iyahang trabaho puhon2x? or bacg biyaan ra pud nya ka puhon tungod kay you were not able to provide.

I don't know her nor would I want to judge her pero mao jud ni akong mahuna2xan nga ending sa storya. whachutink? ^_^

May The Almight Father gives you and your gf
the wisdom that you need and guide and enlighten you for
any decision that you will be making and at the same time
lift the burden that is upon you ^_^

My meaning of love is found in the Corinthians ^_^
and I think no one can find any love
as pure as that. ^_^

[joyce_mj21]

it will be up to u jud bitaw. no matter what advices we will give, no matter how your mind is willing to take it, but the heart will still get over the mind ra japon.
if love jud nimo, there should be accpetance of who she is wholeheartedly, dili lng a part of her. if di jud nimo kaya dawaton ang other part of her, then u have to learn to let go and forget about her and find someone else who can give u the 100% love that u were luking for

[rickflag]

Awwww... this is very sad man oie..

but anyway I can understand her situation specially the part where she is afraid na mo risk mangita ug work here sa cebu coz bacg iya nyang ma boss is one of her client, or worst she will receive indecent proposals from the big boss who knows what she was doing before she gets the job.

and honestly in my honest opinion pud, she will not really look for any job nah aside from the above mention coz in her field, you may like it or not she is pretty much earning over and above minimum, am i right?

and if she will look and be able to find a good job bacg kuwang ra ang sweldo and she is the breadwinner so dli jud pd, am i right again?

prangka pag ka storya lisud2x jud imo sitwasyon brod pero sa ila na ganing gsulti, naa ra jud na nmo ug unsaon... sayang kaayo kay na nakita na unta ka ug potential na makyog, pero pamalandungi nlng pud ang ilang gpanulti na what if magka kamu then after pila ka years ug mag away mo, dli ba sad kayha na nmo iboy2x sa iyaha ang iyahang trabaho puhon2x? or bacg biyaan ra pud nya ka puhon tungod kay you were not able to provide.

I don't know her nor would I want to judge her pero mao jud ni akong mahuna2xan nga ending sa storya. whachutink? ^_^

May The Almight Father gives you and your gf
the wisdom that you need and guide and enlighten you for
any decision that you will be making and at the same time
lift the burden that is upon you ^_^

My meaning of love is found in the Corinthians ^_^
and I think no one can find any love
as pure as that. ^_^

sakto gyud ka sis. mao na reason mag lisud sad siya ug get out from her present situation. the only way i can help her for now is to give her moral support and advices. bring back her self-confidence that she can move on from this one. kung datu pa lang ko i would own all her responsibilities to get her out of this pero i am just an ordinary joe too. some would think that this is just passion or lust, pero after doing several soul searching i know i really care for this girl. kung bati lang ta siyag kinaiya like materialistic ug gold digger dugay na ko nibiya niya pero she's not like that man gud. i can see the innate goodness in her mao siguro naigo pod ko ug maau.

dili man sad ko boyboyan nga pagkatao sis. i don't judge people, gawas anang mga criminals na gyud. sometimes we are just victims of circumstances beyond our control naka experience man pod ko somewhat parehas niya nga case sa una. na involved ko ug gay just to earn more pero ako gibiyaan to nga life kay giluod gyud ko pirmi.

[rickflag]

bitaw naa ra gyud nako. nag open up lang ko kay i just want to know what are your actions kung ma parehas mo sa ako situation. it seems a lot of guys here naka experience na pod diay parehas ani.

[RainDrizzle07]

sakto gyud ka sis. mao na reason mag lisud sad siya ug get out from her present situation. the only way i can help her for now is to give her moral support and advices. bring back her self-confidence that she can move on from this one. kung datu pa lang ko i would own all her responsibilities to get her out of this pero i am just an ordinary joe too. some would think that this is just passion or lust, pero after doing several soul searching i know i really care for this girl. kung bati lang ta siyag kinaiya like materialistic ug gold digger dugay na ko nibiya niya pero she's not like that man gud. i can see the innate goodness in her mao siguro naigo pod ko ug maau.

dili man sad ko boyboyan nga pagkatao sis. i don't judge people, gawas anang mga criminals na gyud. sometimes we are just victims of circumstances beyond our control naka experience man pod ko somewhat parehas niya nga case sa una. na involved ko ug gay just to earn more pero ako gibiyaan to nga life kay giluod gyud ko pirmi.

awwwww... sad jud bro...sad jud...naa ra jud na nin u..

wla na koy masulti,

I will pray for you and your gf bro.. ^_^

[rmckiens]

actually bay... very interesting ang imong topic however... tan aw nako nakainom ka paghimo ini nga thread....ngano man? una sa tanan who come nakaingon ka nga falling inlove with the wrong person ngano man imo pa gipalanat ug long relationship when at the first place u fell not in love with her.... or maybe ang sakit nga kamatuoran mao nga seguro imo lang gi tilaw tilawan ang mga babye so sayop japon imong pangutana...ana ta ka "How does it feel when ur in Carma"..... hehe he meresi....pikat nimo

[rickflag]

bai mao bitaw naka quote ang wrong kay siguro in the eyes of other people i am stupid. if i open this up to my friends they would laugh at me and say i am stupid for sure. siguro wrong because of what she's doing but not because of who she really is. i learned to separate the deed from the doer lang siguro bai.

sober pod ko pag himo ani nga thread bai, i just want to vent out lang siguro and see what's the real concensus and because like i said i can't open this up to the people who really know me.

karma? yes. i am not a saint myself and i think all of us have experienced karma once in a while in our lives. we erred in our ways once in a while but the important thing is to learn from it and know how to find the right way again.

[RainDrizzle07]

bai mao bitaw naka quote ang wrong kay siguro in the eyes of other people i am stupid. if i open this up to my friends they would laugh at me and say i am stupid for sure. siguro wrong because of what she's doing but not because of who she really is. i learned to separate the deed from the doer lang siguro bai.

sober pod ko pag himo ani nga thread bai, i just want to vent out lang siguro and see what's the real concensus and because like i said i can't open this up to the people who really know me.

karma? yes. i am not a saint myself and i think all of us have experienced karma once in a while in our lives. we erred in our ways once in a while but the important thing is to learn from it and know how to find the right way again.

Agree jud ko nmo tanan ani imo gsulti bro..
pero question lang.. nsa kalisud ila pamilya
ingon ana jud ka lisud na maglisud pud ka ug tabang?
are you working right now or wla ka work?

Correct sad ka ug open up na nmo sa people who cares for you
like your friend idiscourage jud ka nla and they will surely
laugh at you, pero bitaw if they are your true friends they will
open their heart and mind and understand the situation
your into and not condemn you ,after all, what are friends are for dba? hehe

so unsa namay update ani bro?

[rickflag]

Agree jud ko nmo tanan ani imo gsulti bro..
pero question lang.. nsa kalisud ila pamilya
ingon ana jud ka lisud na maglisud pud ka ug tabang?
are you working right now or wla ka work?

Correct sad ka ug open up na nmo sa people who cares for you
like your friend idiscourage jud ka nla and they will surely
laugh at you, pero bitaw if they are your true friends they will
open their heart and mind and understand the situation
your into and not condemn you ,after all, what are friends are for dba? hehe

so unsa namay update ani bro?

naa ko work sis. pero my salary can't pay for a chemotherapy. think the cheapest nowadays is P60K a month. mao kung ana pa lang ta kadako ako income why not? nakatabang pa ko sa iya loved ones. she didn't exactly told me the exact amount coz she's not depending on me financially. my friends? well you know how some guys think, they think that all gfh are "dirties". it's hard to open up to them without being ridiculed. mas understanding pa ang mga girls pro siempre depende ra pod. daghan mga tao nga mo condemn dayon sa mga Mary Magdalene's around us. our society and norms is not so kind to them.

[emnace09]

just be her hourly or daily customer..i dont mean any bad bai ha..