When Your Guy Best Friend is GAY.

[VampyR]

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kadungog nka sa song ni stephen lynch, "if i were gay"? mura'g ingon ana jud nahitabo sa inyo bai

[adrian7299]

kadungog nka sa song ni stephen lynch, "if i were gay"? mura'g ingon ana jud nahitabo sa inyo bai

yup. from his ipod. lol

[Luskan]

Wow, to think that he openly admitted to you, he must have have trusted you a lot. Admitting something like that is very hard for a gay person especially when they are prone to condemnation.

[adrian7299]

yup, he did. if i were him he shudnt have. it would have saved our friendship.

[carbrill]

musta na man any updates?

[ethel]

well, maybe he didn't want to lie to you anymore. maybe he valued your friendship that much that he risked the chance of being discriminted over telling the truth. just remember bro, you have been through a lot together. i know it must be very queer knowing that your best friend is attracted to guys but if you just take away that simple fact, he'll turn out to be that same guy that you treated like a brother - just like before.

just wiegh it out, does his being gay reason enough to throw away years of friendship? he became your bestfriend not just because you are both guys - hell if that the case, every one can be your best friend. he became more like your brother because he had values that you respect and trust. just think it through! i hope this helps!

[adrian7299]

hahay kapoya ani ui....mura mn ug uyab2....lol

[carbrill]

hahay kapoya ani ui....mura mn ug uyab2....lol

ana jud na du to win ur friend back(char!), if u're sincere about ur friendship... subra pa gani sa uyab2x ang uban... whahaha... lolz...

naa koy permanente nga tactic gamiton i'll share it to u... hehehehe... since u know his weakness use it as ur tool to win his attention, to talk to him...hehehehe... wen u are cool with one another stress out that ur just there to be his FRIEND not more than it....

effective with my ex and other friends...hehehe...

[paris2009]

Your situation is quite common, I have heard from some sources that a gay friend falling for his straight bestfriend is common, the bond you share is so strong that it is just like a relationship, you must be scared after that incident and I understand your feelings but you know, what you did is psychologically a defense mechanism, you felt hurt to know the truth, the thing is, he himself is suffering/dying being so close to you, someone he can't have and to have you around so close to him must be the best thing rather than losing you, he didn't feel strong enough to open it up to you because he feared it would change the relationship you two had, and because of the incident, his nightmare has come to a reality, he just had to face it, he knows the situation he is faced with now and even if you have cooled off, the phobia has enslaved him, you just have to be open man, you can't let something like that ruin your great friendship, you just have to let him realize that your straight, crushes like this usually go away and your friend might get that crush off but his friendly love for you wont go, he just feels scared right now, that's why he can't face you, talking publicly wont ease the situation, seeing him somewhere private where you both can talk privately could work, please don't look down on him, he is crushed beyond all measure and to have your support will be more of a miracle to him than anything else and he will cherish you for that, tell him you are good as friends and that's how far it will go, he will understand that, I'm sure of it. if you need more info just email me @ jpgay_2487@yahoo.com, this is my dad's account. Good Luck and God Bless.

[wingkee]

hahay kapoya ani ui....mura mn ug uyab2....lol

kapoya ana bro oi affected gyud ka?.. ok raman unta ug friends ra gyud iya tumong pero ug na inlove na cya nimo lahi nana... maau sad nga ni gawas ang tinud anay niyang color bro what if ikaw ng pwerteng huboga nya gi hatod ka niya sa inyo... murag naay mahitabo nga dili angayan..