Can anyone give me advices??

[pirehro]

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just be strong , unaha sa na imo baby... karma ra na nah niya... bantay lang jud na siya

[naj ice]

he's not emotionally stable, galatagaw pa na iya mind. He still ddnt realize the responsibility as your husband and father of your children. Lisud kaayo. The least but best thing you can do here is to focus on your pregnancy first don't get too affected on his lies divert your attention to your baby's health. We can't blame him to do those things wla pa cguro na natagbaw anyways your both too young pd thats why. Don't wait till he realize and grow, focus on your children and their future mao nay dakong problema nimo karon kysa magproblema ka anang mga bakak ug chicks nya. try to weigh things, your children needs more attention than your husband.

[isaac95]

I'm 21 and he's 22..

So young for a mature relationship...

Settle things for the sake of your baby/babies. If it doesn't work try to live without him. Don't be so martyr, fight and stand, don't rely on him.. Pray and ask GOD for guidance....

[V@nity]

"If you go back with a man who hits you it's because you don't think
you're worthy of being with a man who won't. If he hits you ones, he's
going to do it again." -Oprah Winfrey

[ashmae_01]

ahm, can you forget about him for the meantime? pretend that he doesn't exist. do that for your baby.

yeah ryt sis...
luoy ang baby na imong gdala

now i knw y gnahan nmu ipa adopt ang bb pag 1st coz ang iyang father wla diay kwenta

kalimti na cya oi and anha ihatag imong attention tnan sa imung bb

[lovely_chic]

I understand na you love the guy so much because he's the father of your children but think more of yourself and your children rather than him..That kind of guy is hopeless, no matter what you do he will not change and I don't think that he respect and love you that much coz if he do he won't do such stupidity. Always remember that he's not the only fish in the ocean and don't waste your time with those kind of people. You're still young and daghan pa ang maabot sa imo life...

[supernoob]

Ate, lisud jud nah... pero kung huna hunaon nimo ug tarong...taronga jud hehe. gang, ayaw kahadlok ky na anakan nka niya.. kung gi binuangan lang ka niya ayw nlng ug padaun in the end kw ra gyapoy masakitan... pag decision ate, u need to end it. -feel free to contact me or sumtin...

[iveslovespink]

i think d pana solution ang pagminyu sa karun..
f ma minyu mo and he doesn't get his act together, mas complicated na nuon..
and mas lisud i gawas sa situation..
patagama sa na xa oie..
let him understand na what he's doing is wrong..
ma binuang pana para niya, naka hurt nana nimu..
lain kaau na oie..
don't think about him nalang sa kai d maau for your pregnancy..
maunsa palang ka ug imung baby..
stay strong lang jud..
pasagdii sa na xa..

[chormatus]

At a very early age, you have been intimately involved with a man. I suppose he is still living with his parents and your are living with your parents. Why haven't you gotten married [after you had your first child] to seal your relationship in a holy matrimony? Were your parents against this guy or against the wedding because you are both too young?

You see, despite giving birth to your bf's child, it is not a guarantee that he will stick with you. His promises is not a guarantee either. Relationships that are not binded by the law and by God are as unpredictable as the weather.

You were distraught when you discovered that your bf had been unfaithful to you. If that is your intuition, I believe it is true since women are gifted with good intuition. You cannot insist that your bf should stop seeing and flirting with other women, in the first place you are not married to him yet. You tried to talk with him and ask to stop seeing his women but it didn't work, in fact he became even more defensive. His reactions made you feel even worst and now he is out of your control because he won't listen to you anymore.

Ms. the only thing you have control over with at this time is how you feel about your bf and how you would react to what he is doing. The harder you try to control him, the more defensive he gets and that might even lead to the dissolution of your relationship.

Be in control of your feelings and reactions about how your bf is behaving. You and your baby gets affected if you are unable to control them. Focus on the positive things about your present situation (like being happy for having a wonder child).

Learn techniques in conflict resolution strategies. Learn to fight a fair fight - not nagging or going "tampo". Read articles on assertiveness, on communication skills, and on understanding the psychology of men. In that way, you will be able see the situation through the eyes of your bf and communicate with him in a non-judgmental way and perhaps it will save the relationship.

There is still hope in your relationship.

[sabrinxy]

As of the moment, i'm not miding him that much anymore.. I don't even try thinking of him 'coz it would give me alot of problems.. I'm keeping myself busy these days with my kids and also with the hobbies i like doing.. Thank you all for your concern.. I really do appreciate it.. alot..