Surviving The Break-Up Blues

[banana]

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*just remind yourself that millions of people in the whole world get broken-hearted every minute and you're not alone
*divert your attention to other things
*find a hobby that you like and focus your mind on it
*eat ice cream
*make sure you make yourself look good all the time
*do not listen to sad songs
*avoid places that will remind you of her
*don't talk to her, text her or see her
*go out with your friends
*count your other blessings

Thats what i'm actually doing right now and its helping me a lot and im just taking one day at a time. I understand im not alone and theres more to life than just being lonely and thinking about whats not there anymore.

Thank you guys for sharing these thoughts i know somehow others just like me has probably read this thread also and i'm sure this has given them something to think about.. cool stuff!

[banana]

Just to be honest with you guys, today Feb. 21 is our 5th Anniversary and we broke up on valentines Feb. 14.

[n`gel]

Hey Banana, we have a family friend whose husband left her for one of her bestfriend. They were married 15 years and got 2 kids. Ain't that other woman such a bitch? a witch? and she's not pretty ha mura syang ungo. Lami kaayo i-football kick.

Grabe pa ni iya kasakit kaysa imo dude.

[annais]

ah... yes, a vacation will help. be with your pain. that doesn't translate that you dwell on it, though... clear you head and release all the burden inside you while you cool your heels in some secluded beach or breath fresher air in a remote area... that way, the next time you bump into her, bitterness won't rule you.

what better time for a getaway than the upcoming holidays! have fun!

[potterboy]

go on... it wont feed you and your family... wala kay sweldo ana...

[cottoncandy]

pray... it will surely help...

dont be bitter .. kay it wont help u at all... try to check on ur priorities... u can divert into some other things and activities...

move on... forgive and eventually ull forget the pain.. it may take some time... but u have to be strong and u have to continue to live life... to love.... life is too short to be anythin but happy... :P

[akokini_john]

i think, you should accept the truth that ur relationship didnt work out. i understand that your still in denial stage, so accepting it will be lot harder. eat banana, it can subside your feeling of depression. cry it out, dont keep it in yourself, share it with your friends and family, believe me, it can help a lot. i know only time can heal. get ur life bz, like jogging everday in the oval of sports center. i've experienced it before with my 1st and 2nd gf, it was kinda hurting me badly. but above all i've surpassed it. wth Gods guidance.

[elord]

unsa man na nga butang Mr. Banana? i list daw basi interesado ko.. ako wla ko ana kay dili man sya mang hatag naku ako man mang hatag nya..hheheheheh

[sassy_suzzy]

mag ukay-ukay sale si banana... yipeeee!

[banana]

hehehe i actually feed good now! not thinking much about what happend!! suroy nya mo sa kato buy and sell nga forum kay naa nya mga barato didto nga baligya nako hehehehehehe!!!

I have diverted my thoughts to other things and have concentrated on my work more and some other important thing i havnt done before.. It feels real good.. thanks guys!!

TO ALL WHO POSTED : di mo mu wonder maybe mag ka sugat ta sa ayala or somewhere and wa lang ta kahibaw mao diay nang tawhana nag tabang nimo or imong gi tabangan nya di mo kaila.. bati sa? pero im sure someway somehow that happened already.